Die alone... but never date

This is all about standards And lemme tell you: Your standards usually reveal what you believe you deserve Here are 12 things you should stop normalizing 👇🏼 1. She constantly raises her voice at you. She’s allowed to be pissed. She’s not entitled to disrespect you. 2. Every argument somehow becomes your fault. A grown woman can own what she feels without making you responsible for it. 3. She jokes about how much better her ex was. That’s not funny. It slowly kills safety and respect. 4. She hides conversations with other men. “Nothing happened” doesn’t erase the fact that it was kept from you. 5. She tells you that you’re too emotional whenever you speak up. Don’t let someone convince you that having feelings is the problem. 6. She wants you committed but keeps giving you mixed signals. You deserve clarity, not a constant guessing game. 7. She constantly chooses outside validation over your relationship. Friends are important. Attention from strangers shouldn’t come at the cost of your relationship. 8. She disappears or goes cold to punish you. Healthy people ask for space. They don’t use distance as a weapon. 9. You’re expected to keep her calm while nobody cares what’s happening inside you. That’s not partnership. That’s emotional babysitting. 10. You keep using sex to avoid the real conversation. You can’t fuck your way out of problems you refuse to talk about. 11. She acts single but expects you to act married. You can’t have commitment only when it benefits you. 12. You’re always proving yourself while she barely meets you halfway. That dynamic will eventually turn into resentment 👉🏼 That’s why some men keep ending up in the same kind of relationship, even with completely different women Because I’ve had conversations with men who say: “Bro, I know this relationship isn’t healthy, but I can’t let her go.” That’s not always love. Sometimes it’s an old wound saying, “If you just try harder, maybe this time you’ll finally be chosen.” Healing changes that. #deepthoughts #share #knowledgesharing #fyp #phycologyfacts