The goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself.

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The video taps into a popular self-improvement and manifestation niche, offering a concise and actionable message about self-love and its impact on attracting others. The creator's confident delivery and relatable points likely resonated with viewers seeking personal growth.

Summary

The video explains that the key to making others obsessed with you is to first be obsessed with yourself. This involves investing time and money in yourself, loving yourself, and building self-confidence. When you demonstrate self-love and growth, people will naturally be drawn to you.

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1Obsession with self is the goal
2Self-obsession leads to others' obsession
3You can't force others to be obsessed
4

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The goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself. When you are obsessed with yourself, other people naturally become obsessed with you. It is how it is. The thing here is you can't make people obsessed with you. The only way people become obsessed with you is because they see that you are investing time in yourself. They see that you're investing money in yourself. They see that you are loving yourself. And because people lack that, people lack self-love. People lack that confidence in themselves. So when they look at you, they want to be around you. They want to be with you or be you Because you are what they don't have If you really want to know how to make people obsessed with you, it's all about you It's about you, honey about no one else Like the minute people see that you are going after your passions that you are taking care of yourself That you are literally leveling up in every area of your life That's the minute that people will gravitate towards you that's the minute that people on a higher vibration will also gravitate towards you.

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The goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself. When you are obsessed with yourself, other people naturally become obsessed with you. It is how it is. The thing here is you can't make people obsessed with you. The only way people become obsessed with you is because they see that you are investing time in yourself. They see that you're investing money in yourself. They see that you are loving yourself. And because people lack that, people lack self-love. People lack that confidence in themselves. So when they look at you, they want to be around you. They want to be with you or be you Because you are what they don't have If you really want to know how to make people obsessed with you, it's all about you It's about you, honey about no one else Like the minute people see that you are going after your passions that you are taking care of yourself That you are literally leveling up in every area of your life That's the minute that people will gravitate towards you that's the minute that people on a higher vibration will also gravitate towards you.