HUSBAND WHO WENT TO PATRONISE

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The video uses a provocative and relatable story about marital fidelity and financial responsibility to engage viewers. The speaker's strong stance and direct address to the audience, combined with the controversial topic, likely drove discussion and shares in the comments section.

Summary

The video discusses the importance of a wife protecting her husband's name and identity, drawing parallels to how one would protect their own name and reputation. The speaker argues that a wife's identity is tied to her husband's name, and therefore, she should uphold it by paying for services rendered, even if it means paying in advance or involving HR to ensure her husband's name is not tarnished.

Structure

1Introduction of a scenario about a man patronizing a prostitute.
2The prostitute demanding payment, which the man refuses.
3The prostitute calling the wife to demand payment.
4The wife's justification for paying, linking it to bearing the husband's name and identity.
5The speaker's advice on paying in advance and protecting the husband's name.
6The speaker's conclusion on the importance of protecting one's identity and the marriage.

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Original caption

Would you pay or not and why? 😂Let’s discuss. #ghanatiktok🇬🇭 #relationships #marriage @The Morayo show(MAB studios)

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HUSBAND WHO WENT TO PATRONISE A PROSTITUTE WHEN THEY FINISHED THE PROSTITUTE SAID, PAY ME FIFTY THOUSAND NAIRA. AND THE MAN REFUSED. THE GIRL SNATCHED HIS PHONE AND CALLED HIS WIFE MONEY THAT YOUR HUSBAND AND I JUST FINISHED. I JUST FINISHED, WOULD YOU PAY THE MONEY OR WOULD YOU NOT PAY THE MONEY IN ME? OH, I WILL PAY. I BEAR HIS NAME, OKAY? MY CHILDREN BEAR HIS NAME, OKAY? FOR THE SAKE OF THE MINISTRY AND FOR THE SAKE OF MY CHILDREN, OKAY? IF I SAY! LOVE HIM, IT MEANS LOVE GOD. AND WHEN YOU LOVE GOD, YOU SHOULD LOVE WHATEVER COMES OUT OF THAT MAN. IN FACT, AUNTIE, WHEN YOU ARE PAYING, PAY IN ADVANCE, EH? TO YOUR H.R. THAT THEY SHOULD PUT HER ON PAYROLL. SO EVERY MONTH YOUR SALARY, NOW THEY WILL GIVE HER 20%. SO THAT IN CASE OF INCASITY SO THAT NEXT TIME WHEN IT HAPPENS AGAIN, THEN YOU DON'T EVEN SHE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE TO COME TO COLLECT THE MONEY YOU HAVE ALREADY PAID IN ADVANCE. PAY BECAUSE YOU BEAR THE NAME. THE NAME ABOVE ALL OTHER NAMES. AT THE MENTION OF THE NAME, YOU GO TO THE RESTAURANT AND YOU EAT FOR FREE. AT THE MENTION OF THAT NAME, AIRPORT AND YOU FLY WHY WON'T SHE PROTECT THIS NAME? WHY WON'T SHE PAY AND PROTECT THIS NAME. AND THAT IS WHY OF YOU WERE IN HEY, HEY, HAY, HAY. HE DOESN'T RESPECT HER, HEY, HAY, HAY, ME. I WON'T PAY, THAT IS WHY A LOT DIAMONDS ON YOUR FINGERS. LOT OF YOU DON'T HAVE GOLD AND DIAMOND ON YOUR FINGERS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT WILLING AND READY TO DO WHAT MAKES THE MARRIAGE WORK. HEY! BECAUSE THAT IS YOUR IDENTITY. HIS NAME IS YOUR IDENTITY. YOU DON'T HAVE ANY IDENTITY OUTSIDE OF HIS NAME, SO YOU HAVE TO PROTECT YOUR IDENTITY. NOBODY IS GOING TO JUDGE YOU OVER HERE AUNTIE, WE RESPECT YOU, YOU KNOW? AND THIS IS YOUR REWARD. THE, THE, THE GOLD, THE GOLD AND THE DIAMOND. THAT'S YOUR REWARD. AND MATSOSE AND HOLD HIM TIGHT SO THAT HE DOESN'T COME INTO THE DATING POOL.

Transcript

husband who went to patronise a sex worker, a prostitute. When they finished, the prostitute said, pay me fifty thousand naira. And the man refused. The girl snatched his phone and called his wife. Money that your husband and I just finished. I just finished, would you pay the money or would you not pay the money in me? Oh, I will pay. I bear his name, okay? My children bear his name, okay? For the sake of the ministry and for the sake of my children, okay? If I say I love him, it means I love God. And when you love God, you should love whatever comes out of that man. In fact, auntie, when you are paying, pay in advance, eh? To your H.R. that they should put her on payroll. So every month your salary, now they will give her 20%. So that in case of incasity, so that next time when it happens again, then you don't even she doesn't even have to come to collect the money. You have already paid in advance. Pay. Because you bear the name. The name above all other names. At the mention of the name, you go to the restaurant and you eat for free. At the mention of that name, airport and you fly. Why won't she protect this name? Why won't she pay and protect this name? And that is why of you were in Hey, hey, hay, hay. He doesn't respect her, hey, hay, hay, me. I won't pay, that is why a lot diamonds on your fingers. Lot of you don't have gold and diamond on your fingers because you are not willing and ready to do what makes the marriage work. Hey! Because that is your identity. His name is your identity. You don't have any identity outside of his name, so you have to protect your identity. Nobody is going to judge you over here. Auntie, we respect you, you know? And this is your reward. The, the, the gold, the gold and the diamond. That's your reward. And Matsose and hold him tight so that he doesn't come into the dating pool.