how u need to start moving to start pulling ppl ur attracted to

I don't know who needs to hear this, but if you think that you can't attract people or pull or whatever, then guess what? You're not going to attract people or pull, okay? As someone, and listen, as someone who had that same mentality that I can't pull or attract or whatever, it wasn't until my mindset shifted and that's when I started seeing the motion coming in the ocean, you know what I'm talking about? Welcome back to Nids Secret where we stop living life in spectator mode and start doing the things we want to do together, you and me. So follow to become a lovelyy. We're so cool here, aren't we guys? Everyone say yes. I don't think people realize truly how much self-perception changes how your reality is and I'm going to walk you through a scientific experiment, okay? We're learning something today. Basically there was an experiment that people did and they had group A and they were like, group A, they're going to put scars on their face. So they had huge scars on their face and they sent them out into the real world and they were like, come back and tell us how people perceive you. And group A literally like, thought they were hate crime. I don't know how to describe it. Like, they were like people were looking at me crazy, people were discriminating towards me, people were like, they just had such negative perceptions of themselves, right? Right? Then they were like, okay, come back group A. Group A, we're going to take off the scars that we put on your face and then you go back into the real world. The gag is, I love when they do a little gag. The gag is, is some of the people in group A, they didn't take off the scars. So some of the people in group A still had the scars on their face and they sent them out into the real world and when they came back and to report what they thought of their interactions, none of them were overly like, oh, people were weird at me, people were looking at me crazy, whatever. All this to say, babes, every time that you're sitting there and you're telling me like, oh my gosh, like I just can't attract people and I can't pull, yes. Obviously, for some reason you think that that's true and you think that your perception of yourself is real. So the way your brain works is it'll take that perception that you have of yourself and make it reality. All of a sudden when someone looks at you, you're not thinking, oh my gosh, they want me. You're thinking, oh my gosh, they think I'm chopped cheese. Okay? And then you have those interactions and you take those as proof because you've had so many of them. And then now you think it's true. And now when you talk to someone that's attracted, you wouldn't even give yourself the shot, the opportunity to flirt. That's, I'm, I'm yelling. I'm yelling because I literally thought this, like this was my mindset. I didn't even give myself the chance. I would self-reject. I would self-reject. I would be like, hey, I know I think you're really cute, but like, I know you're not going to want this, so like, I'm, I'm not even going to try and like, flirt. Why? It's because my perception of myself was bad. And then when my perception became, so suddenly, suddenly my, my pull rate was so much better because I gave myself the shot. You aren't automatically thinking, oh, everyone hates me, whatever. So next time, and I'm going to make something actionable, okay, guys? Next time, I want you to, when you're going out in public, I'm not saying think, oh my gosh, everyone wants me so bad. I'm saying tea. I mean, think that you're so tea, yes. Most people think that you're attractive. I'm sorry. Give that your baseline. Who's that hurting? Who's that hurting? It's, it's not hurting anyone, okay? So like, walk around, walk around thinking that. You don't have to have a big ego about it. Just think like, yeah, I'm tea, okay? Period. Yes. It's not too late. Follow for more to become a lovelyy.