in less than 90 seconds here's how ur gonna HOLD a convo when ur BOTH awkward

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The video provides a practical and relatable solution to a common social anxiety, using a simple and engaging game mechanic. The creator's energetic delivery and clear examples make the advice easy to understand and apply.

Summary

This video explains the 'Association Game' as a technique to hold conversations when both parties are feeling awkward. The creator demonstrates how to use associations to keep a conversation flowing by linking topics and sharing related experiences.

Structure

1Introduce the problem of awkward conversations
2Explain the 'Association Game' concept
3Demonstrate with examples (Chicago -> Pizza -> Food)
4Demonstrate with another example (Road trip -> Cars -> Gas prices)
5Explain the benefit of the technique
6Call to action for a series

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in less than 90 seconds here's how ur gonna HOLD a convo when ur BOTH awkward *ur not both awkward but u need to start doing this SOCIAL SUMMERRR advice + challenges FOLLOW FOR MORLE ASSOCIATION GAME what it is + how to do it association 2 association 1 Chicago -> Chicago -> 🍕 -> food DEEP DISH ur response how was ur pizza ur response 2. association why ur gonna need it ASSOCIATION SERIES? COMMENT AND FOLLOW FOR MORE

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when you feel like you can’t hold a conversation with anyone watch this babes 🫵 how to hold a conversation when your both awkward #advice #conversationtips #talkingguide

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in less than 90 seconds here's how ur gonna HOLD a convo when ur BOTH awkward Most people feel like they can't hold conversations when they're awkward. But you need to start doing this because they're awkward and they don't know what to say. And now you're both awkward and you don't know what to say. Nope. Here's what you're gonna do. Welcome back to Social Summer where I give you advice on how to be more social and do challenges to show you it's not that bad. Follow for more. I saw someone say this a few years ago, it stuck with me. It is the Association Game. Ball. What is association? Nids secret. I'm so glad I asked. Association. Association 2. Association 1. Someone says I went to Chicago last week. Chicago. What does that remind you of? Pizza. Food. Deep dish. I wanted to go to Chicago for so long. Ur response. How was your pizza? Ur response 2. Okay. Okay. They say I went on a road trip. Driving. Cars. Gas. I think I've got gas prices. Ur response 2. Girl, how much was your gas? Oh my gosh. They're gonna give you a whole story about something. Okay. The power with association is the fact that you can build off of different conversations and it doesn't feel like you're freaking out back to back to back to back to back. Let me know if you want an Association Series? Comment and follow for more. Alright, follow for more. Love ya.