the man has to be more obsessed

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The video uses a provocative, polarizing take on dating dynamics that encourages viewers to comment and share their own relationship experiences.

Summary

A creator shares her opinion on relationship dynamics, arguing that men should be the more obsessed partner to ensure the relationship works. She reflects on her own experience, noting that while she and her partner are now equally obsessed, she believes women should avoid becoming the primary obsessor.

Structure

1Stating the premise that men should be the obsessor
2Explaining the reasoning based on cheating statistics
3Sharing a personal anecdote about her relationship
4Concluding that women should avoid being the primary obsessor

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the man has to be more obsessed

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Rumors are true, the man has to be the obsessor, okay? In the relationship, the man has to be more obsessed with the girl to work it out, just because of the stats of y'all being cheating hoes, okay? Boom, period. My case, Lee, would always be like, 'I'm more obsessed with you than you are with me,' and I'd be like, 'No, like, no.' Say that again, though. And it was kind of true in the moment, but then like, honestly, as it came to be, we are now like equally obsessed. But I am not the obsessor. I think that men should be the obsessor and women should be obsessed, like you tolerate them or whatever. But the second you become the obsessor, baby, you're cooked.