Let's Talk: Dowry Requirements

I am confused. I just saw a video of an Islamic woman asking other Islamic women what their dowry requirements were. And they were saying like $50,000 a house G wagon. $50,000 a house G wagon, gold. I feel as though I've gone about this all wrong. And I feel as though my standards were not high enough because I'm like, oh, just like marriage is, you know, just marrying me and then, you know, providing for me after that. No, from here on out, we're setting the precedent that to be with me, my future husband at least needs to provide me something for our wedding. Like I don't know if it's tradition for like any other religion outside of that, but I'm incorporating it into my Christian, my Christian marriage. A G Wagon, a house, gold.