(9:00 am - 11:59 pm) average day in my life saying yes to everything

@_misomelon

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The video resonated with viewers by sharing a relatable personal journey of overcoming introversion and embracing new experiences. The "saying yes to everything" narrative, combined with the creator's vulnerability about making friends and finding community, likely drove engagement and shares.

Summary

The creator reflects on their past tendency to be a homebody and how moving to a new city prompted them to say "yes" to everything for a year. This led to a fuller social life and a realization about the importance of community and letting go of hyper-independence.

Structure

1Introduction to an "average day" of saying yes
2Decision to say yes to everything for a year after moving
3Realization of missing opportunities due to being a homebody
4Struggle to make friends in their 20s and 30s
5Embracing discomfort and social events
6Finding depth and community through saying yes

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The video shows various scenes of the creator's life, including commuting, eating, working, and attending events. There are brief glimpses of products like a laptop, a handbag, and skincare products from "NATURIUM" which is also seen on a storefront. However, none of these products are the central focus or are explicitly promoted as the subject of the video. The video's narrative is about personal growth and social connection, not a specific product.

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what an average day looks like when you say yes to everything #dayinmylife #nyc #LifeAdvice #9to5 #5to9

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(9:00 am - 11:59 pm) average day in my life saying yes to everything this is what life to everything to a new city character: corporate girlie status: commuting to office I told myself yes to everything for at least one year I love being a homebody and I got engaged who is also a homebody we found ourselves at home a lot but I started to wonder what opportunities I was missing out on because I just increasing my surface area of luck and one day I woke up and I realized many girlfriends I didn't have make plans with and on top of for so many years how to make friends and how to be a good friend so when I moved I truly took this as a fresh start to as many things even if I had a shitty stressful day at work even if I didn't know anyone else going eventually I learned into the discomfort introduce myself to a new person and before I knew it my social calendar was full really really full but it wasn't just breadth I was looking for yearning for depth it is so hard to make new friends in your 20s and 30s and saying yes to everything serendipitously fixed that you know that saying if you want a village a villager saying yes also reminded me how to be a good villager for the people that I care about and finally let go of that hyperindependence

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this is what life looks like when you say yes to everything when I move to a new city I told myself I would say yes to everything for at least one year I love being a homebody and I got engaged who is also a homebody so naturally we found ourselves at home a lot but I started to wonder what opportunities I was missing out on because I just wasn't out there increasing my surface area of luck and one day I woke up and I realized many girlfriends I didn't have people to make plans with and on top of working remote for so many years how to make friends and how to be a good friend so when I moved to New York I truly took this as a fresh start to as many things as possible even if I had a shitty stressful day at work even if I didn't know anyone else going eventually I learned to lean into the discomfort and introduce myself to a new person and before I knew it my social calendar was full like really really full but it wasn't just breadth I was looking for yearning for depth it is so hard to make new friends in your 20s and 30s and saying yes to everything serendipitously fixed that you know that saying if you want a village you have to be a villager saying yes to everything also reminded me how to be a good villager for the people that I care about and finally let go of that hyperindependence