The marriage bedroom struggle. Sad reality.

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The video addresses a highly sensitive and relatable topic with raw, direct language, immediately capturing attention by validating the pain of viewers in struggling relationships.

Summary

A marriage counselor discusses the emotional and physical disconnect that can occur in a marriage, specifically focusing on the lack of intimacy and communication in the bedroom. He explains that these issues are often symptoms of deeper relationship problems and emphasizes the importance of addressing them.

Structure

1Introduction to the bedroom struggle
2Physical symptoms of emotional distance
3The cycle of mechanical, loveless sex

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Some relationships have reached a dangerous place… No connection. No affection. No excitement. Two people can share the same bed every night and still feel emotionally distant from each other. When communication, care, and emotional connection disappear, relationships slowly become cold and mechanical. This conversation is hitting marriages hard. #MarriageAdvice #today #fyp #viral #DrRickNetshiozwi

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Marriage Counselling line +27677033585 The marriage bedroom struggle. Sad reality. WHEN A WOMAN IS NOT WHEN SHE FEELS SHE'S NOT LOVED- SHE CAN'T LUBRICATE EASY YEAH SHE STRUGGLES TO LUBRICATE AND I'VE SEEN MEN COME YOU KNOW IN VARIOUS SETUPS YOU KNOW- PUBLIC DOESN'T EVEN ORGASM SHE CAN'T AND AND BY THE WAY WOMEN STRUGGLE WITH ORGASMS MM-HMM SO SO WHEN YOU SIT "OKAY WE NEED TO FIX THIS NOW." AND YOU START TALKING TO THEM AND YOU REALIZE THAT THERE'S DEEPER PROBLEMS- MM THAN THIS YOU KNOW WHEN A MAN SLEEPS THAT SIDE AND A WOMAN SLEEPS THAT SIDE- MM AND TOMORROW THE MAN JUST WANTS SEX AND YOU YOU WATCH A WOMAN I MEAN THE HUSBAND WATCHES HIS WIFE HAVE SEX WITH HIM WHILE NOT EVEN MAKING A SOUND MM JUST LOOKING AT THE CEILING AND SOMETIMES AND WHEN THE MAN FINISH AND EJACULATES INTO THE WIFE- MM WHAT HAPPENS? SHE JUST TAKES HER TOWEL WIPES HERSELF AND LOOKS THE OTHER SIDE AND GOES STRAIGHT TO SLEEP AND YOU CALL THAT MARRIAGE? THERE ARE WOMEN IN SPACES LIKE THAT YEAH UNFORTUNATELY THERE THERE ARE MEN WHO ARE ALSO IN SPACES LIKE THAT THEY'LL TELL THE WOMAN AH OKAY YOU KNOW WHAT? JUST CLIMB DO YOUR STUFF." SHE DOES HER STUFF HE DOESN'T EVEN ORGASM HE JUST TURNS ASIDE AND HE SLEEPS DO MEN PRETEND OR FAKE ORGASM? I'VE NEVER SEEN SUCH SITUATIONS IN TERMS OF EXPERIENCE IN COUNSELING AND AND PUBLIC SPACES- MM BUT WOMEN DO WOMEN DO COME TO A STATE WHERE THEY THEY DON'T REACH ORGASMS BECAUSE THE RIGHT STIMULATION IS NOT TAKING PLACE MM-HMM BUT WHEN PEOPLE HAVE SEX IN THOSE LEVELS- WHERE THEY DON'T EVEN LOOK AT EACH OTHER ANYMORE THEIR FACES- MM-HMM THEY DON'T EVEN TALK THAT MUCH ANYMORE THEY JUST ENGAGE SEXUALLY AND THEN THEY JUST GO STRAIGHT TO SLEEP AND YOU WAKE UP LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED THAT'S A SIGN OF A DEAD SEXUAL UH UNION IN OTHER WORDS IT HAS REACHED A PLACE WHERE IT'S NOT STANDING RIGHT ANYMORE

Transcript

The marriage bedroom struggle. Sad reality. When a woman feels she's not loved, she can't lubricate easy. She struggles to lubricate. And I've seen men come, you know, in various setups, you know, public and private. She doesn't even orgasm. She can't. And by the way, women struggle with orgasms. So when you sit down there, you're like, okay, we need to fix this now. And you start talking to them and you realize that there's deeper problems than this. You know when a man sleeps that side and a woman sleeps that side, and tomorrow the man just wants sex and you watch a woman, I mean, the husband watches his wife have sex with him while not even making a sound, just looking at the ceiling and sometimes looking there. And when the man finishes and ejaculates into the wife, what happens? She just takes her towel, wipes herself and looks the other side and goes straight to sleep. And you call that marriage? There are women in spaces like that. There are men who are also in spaces like that. They'll tell the woman, ah, okay, you know what, just climb, do your stuff. She does her stuff, he doesn't even orgasm, he just turns aside and he sleeps. Do men pretend or fake orgasm? I've never seen such situations in terms of experience in counseling and public spaces, but women do. Women do come to a state where they don't reach orgasms because the right stimulation is not taking place. But when people have sex in those levels where they don't even look at each other anymore in their faces, they don't even talk that much anymore, they just engage sexually and then they just go straight to sleep and you wake up like nothing happened, that's a sign of a dead sexual union. In other words, it has reached a place where it's not standing right anymore.