Some Women Think It's Love... But It's Just an Exchange.

Some women think it's love, but it's just an exchange. It comes, he pays your school fees of the children, pays your studies, sits down and said what else needs to be done. You say no, my car is fixing. He says no, sell it. I'll buy you one. Buys you one. Then you say no, I'm staying here. So no, don't worry, I've got an apartment somewhere while we are building. You can live in that apartment. Exactly, the excitement hits. And six months down the line, he says, please bring my car back, move out my apartment. This relationship is done. And you find these guys access to 10 million a year in terms of salary or business or stuff like that. And you find that he only spent 500,000 on you. I mean, that's a drop of the ocean. And you sit down to you, it's big. To him, it's peanuts. That's why when I'm training young girls who come in for counseling and they need assistance and they'll be like, no Rick, he bought me this, he bought me that, he bought me that. And I'll ask, do you know his salary? No, I don't. How much of the shirt he bought you? No, it was 5,000. And I'm like, and you don't know his salary? And then she'll go and consult the man and she'll be like, no, the salary is 100,000, Rick. I'm like, so what's 5,000 to 100,000? Yes. She's like, eh, you know what? I never thought of that. And I slept with him last week. And you know what? He even went and paid my car installment of 8,000. I'm like, so what is that to 100,000? He's not married. On top of that, I was missing rent this other month and he went and he paid that whole rent of 8,000 for a bachelor flat, probably in Randburg or something. And you're like, look, this guy is not even spending much. But already he's sleeping with you, you are running. You know you're excited about those things. You know you're excited about peanuts. And so that's why now you need to coach single mothers to say, no, no, no, no, man, wait, let's investigate this. Sleeping with a person is major work, both genetically, medically, and soulically as well. This thing, it's just not sleeping. It's got serious effects to your life. And you are just for a 5,000 rent t-shirt. This is an exchange. This is not a relationship. And you're not seeing that you've been somehow swooped into an exchange, but you're not, you thinking it's a relationship, but he's outplaying your mind. He's outsmarting you. And so you have to then train single mothers how not to be outsmarted. You know, I'll give you an example.