Nobody Warns Women How Hard Being a Stepmother Can Be...

Nobody warns women how hard being a stepmother can be. Imagine now you automatically become a stepmother to someone who comes in with a child as a man. And now you don't know what it means to be a stepmother and you don't know what it means to actually love another child. And you now have to balance the love of loving your children and loving that man's child as well. And that child also has a mother somewhere else. And that mother is also watching how you actually love that child and that man also is waiting to see how you are going to raise that child as well. And now you are sitting there, you are telling yourself, 'Kuti no, I can do this.' And you realize first day of trying to do it, you are told by the child that, 'You are not my mother. You can't tell me what to do.' And here is my father's house and if you want to leave you can go. And your own biological children are sitting there while that child is telling you that. And now you must ask yourself now, 'What do I do?' I came in with my children, I didn't buy this house, I didn't buy the car that I'm that I'm driving. The clothes that are in the wardrobe, this man bought them. This man took us in like orphans. And he's he's now treating us well, but the child is now telling us this thing, 'I'm the mother.' And the man is sitting there, he's not even reprimanding the child. And on top of that, your own children have to listen to that and look at that child every day of their lives. Bath and go to school with that child and you realize that, hey, this is not a pub and play situation. This is complex. It hits your self-esteem, it hits your your your your your, you know, your sense of pride as a person because now it's almost like you're living off that man.