"I don't like the way you see me."

I recently saw a TikTok video that said, "I don't like the way that you see me is a perfectly valid reason to end a friendship." That really spoke to me because for me, not only have I ended friendships over their unwillingness to allow me, like, evolve inside their mind in a way that's aligned with who I am as a person today versus how they interpret me through their own lens. I have also gone no contact with family members that, for that same reason, and I have left jobs, same reason. I am somebody who routinely feels misunderstood. And that misunderstanding experience that I experience from people causes me to go back and reflect on myself, my behavior, my actions. What did I do? What did I say? What were my intentions behind it? And what could I have done better? While I do that work and I make that effort better to understand why through the way that grace afforded on one end is not afforded to me on the other end. For that reason, it's enough to walk away because I am not my time is trying you am open to yourself, authentically in