GUYS, THEY WANT ME TO BE UPSET SO BAD.

@candyalex71

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Summary

The creator responds to comments on her video, addressing people who are upset by her responses to their comments. She explains that she doesn't get offended by their comments and that they are the ones who are upset because she doesn't give them the answers they feel entitled to. She also mentions that she made new friends and connections and that old comebacks still work.

Structure

1Creator addresses comments on her video.
2She explains why she doesn't get offended by negative comments.
3She discusses how people misinterpret her responses.
4She shares positive outcomes from the comment section.
5She reflects on the effectiveness of her responses.

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GUYS, THEY WANT ME TO BE UPSET SO BAD. UPSET SO BAD. THE COMMENTS ON MY VIDEO IF YOU CLICK BACK WENT COMPLETELY OFF THE RAILS. GLAD THEY DID AND I'LL TELL YOU IN A MINUTE. I'VE GOT SO MANY BIGOTS BEING WILLFULLY OBTUSE, WOEFULLY IGNORANT, AND MISSING MY POINT. THEIR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT AND TO BE ABLE TO TROLL THEM WITHOUT SAYING A WORD. THEY ARE EQUATING BEING CALLED TRANS 1 AS AN INSULT AND 2 AS MEANING THAT YOU LOOK MASCULINE. WHICH BOTH ARE UNTTRUE BECAUSE LET'S USE AN EXAMPLE OF PROBABLY THE ONLY TRANS LAVERNE COX. I THAT GORGEOUS. RIGHT? AND AS I'VE SAID IN THE PAST, ONE OF THE KEY PARTS OF AN INSULT TO MAKE IT ACTUALLY WORK HAS TO BE LITTLE BIT TRUE. AND OBJECTIVELY, IT'S NOT. I DON'T LOOK LIKE A DUDE, SO I'M NOT INSULTED. THERE ARE SO MANY COMMENTS WHERE THEY'RE SAYING I'M OFFENDED, I'M TRIGGERED. THAT SAID I WAS FUMING IN MY VIDEO. I'M VERY CALM AND NICE. I DON'T THINK I EVEN SAID A YOU THINK THAT'S MAD? WHAT THEY THINK FUMING MEANS, BUT I WASN'T MAD. AND THERE'S A JUST A GAGGLE OF PEOPLE WHO THINK IT'S HILARIOUS TO CALL ME DUDE, WHICH TO ME, THAT'S GENDER NEUTRAL. I CALL EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING DUDE. OR GUY, OR BRO, OR CALL ME A MAN'S NAME. IT'S NOT THE HILARIOUS GOTCHA YOU THINK IT IS, GUYS. GUYS. GENDER NEUTRAL. BUT AT THIS POINT, I JUST THINK IT'S HILARIOUS THAT I'M BASICALLY TROLLING THEM THE QUESTION. THEY THINK THEY'RE ENTITLED TO AN ANSWER, AND I'M NOT GIVING IT TO THEM, AND THAT'S MAKING THEM MAD. ME OF BEING MAD BECAUSE I RESPONDED TO A COMMENT. THEY'RE STOPPING AND OUT OF THEIR ON MY VIDEO, GONNA SEE MORE OF THIS TYPE OF CONTENT. VERY STUBBORN, NEURODIVERGENT, AND I TOLD WHAT TO DO. SO THE MORE YOU ASK ME, TELL YOU. ONE BIG REASON IS THAT MY GENDER IDENTITY, WHAT'S IN MY PANTS, HOW I IDENTIFY, ARE ON A NEED TO KNOW BASIS, NEED TO KNOW. THE SAME'S TRUE ANSWER ANY QUESTION YOU DON'T WANT TO. SO YOU CAN I CAN JUST KEEP NOT TELLING YOU, BOTHERS ME THAT YOU KEEP SAYING, SO ARE YOU? BUT I'M NOT I'M NOT INSULTED. YOU'RE NOT HURTING MY FEELINGS AS MUTCH AS YOU THINK YOU ARE. YOU'RE THE ONES THAT ARE ACTUALLY UPSET BECAUSE I'M NOT GIVING YOU THE THINK YOU'RE ENTITLED TO. BUT A COUPLE DID COME OUT IN THE COMMENT SECTION. FIRST, I MADE A NEW FRIENDS AND CONNECTIONS. LOVE THAT. AND SECOND, I LEARNED THAT THE GOOD OLD GEN X COMEBACK STILL WORK. EXAMPLE ONE PARTICULAR COMMENT. IF I CAN I'LL SAY SOMETHING BUT IT STARTS WITH A C. SOMEBODY SAID YOU'RE A RUNT, AND I SAID, YOUR MOM'S A RUNT, AND THEY, LITTLE OFFENDED. IT'S LIKE, STILL THE YOUR MOM STILL WORKS, SO THAT'S GOOD TO KNOW. OH, AND I NEVER THOUGHT I HAD PARTICULARLY STRONG FEATURES THAT'S ACTUALLY PRETTY FIND THAT OUT. YEAH, THE COMMENT SECTION IS INSANE. DID GET ON OF TIKTOK A BUT YOU KNOW, IT HAPPENS. THE OPINIONS OF INTERNET DON'T BOTHER ME. LIKE, TO PARAPHRASE I LOVE BUT CAN'T FIND BACK THIS IS A TIKTOK COMMENT SECTION. I'M NOT, NOR FUCKING ANYBODY HERE. SO FUCKING ANYBODY HERE. SO THE PEOPLE WHO THINK I HAVE A TWIST HAVE COMPLETELY, 100% TWISTED PANTIES. THAT WAS INTERESTING, A LITTLE FUNNY, AND YEAH, THE MOST LOW EFFORT TROLLING IN THE WORLD. OKAY, BYE.

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GUYS, THEY WANT ME TO BE UPSET SO BAD. UPSET SO BAD. THE COMMENTS ON MY VIDEO IF YOU CLICK BACK WENT COMPLETELY OFF THE RAILS. GLAD THEY DID AND I'LL TELL YOU IN A MINUTE. I'VE GOT SO MANY BIGOTS BEING WILLFULLY OBTUSE, WOEFULLY IGNORANT, AND MISSING MY POINT. THEIR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT AND TO BE ABLE TO TROLL THEM WITHOUT SAYING A WORD. THEY ARE EQUATING BEING CALLED TRANS 1 AS AN INSULT AND 2 AS MEANING THAT YOU LOOK MASCULINE. WHICH BOTH ARE UNTRUE BECAUSE LET'S USE AN EXAMPLE OF PROBABLY THE ONLY TRANS LAVERNE COX. I THAT GORGEOUS. RIGHT? AND AS I'VE SAID IN THE PAST, ONE OF THE KEY PARTS OF AN INSULT TO MAKE IT ACTUALLY WORK HAS TO BE LITTLE BIT TRUE. AND OBJECTIVELY, IT'S NOT. I DON'T LOOK LIKE A DUDE, SO I'M NOT INSULTED. THERE ARE SO MANY COMMENTS WHERE THEY'RE SAYING I'M OFFENDED, I'M TRIGGERED. THAT SAID I WAS FUMING IN MY VIDEO. I'M VERY CALM AND NICE. I DON'T THINK I EVEN SAID A YOU THINK THAT'S MAD? WHAT THEY THINK FUMING MEANS, BUT I WASN'T MAD. AND THERE'S A JUST A GAGGLE OF PEOPLE WHO THINK IT'S HILARIOUS TO CALL ME DUDE, WHICH TO ME, THAT'S GENDER NEUTRAL. I CALL EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING DUDE. OR GUY, OR BRO, OR CALL ME A MAN'S NAME. IT'S NOT THE HILARIOUS GOTCHA YOU THINK IT IS, GUYS. GUYS. GENDER NEUTRAL. BUT AT THIS POINT, I JUST THINK IT'S HILARIOUS THAT I'M BASICALLY TROLLING THEM THE QUESTION. THEY THINK THEY'RE ENTITLED TO AN ANSWER, AND I'M NOT GIVING IT TO THEM, AND THAT'S MAKING THEM MAD. ME OF BEING MAD BECAUSE I RESPONDED TO A COMMENT. THEY'RE STOPPING AND OUT OF THEIR ON MY VIDEO, GONNA SEE MORE OF THIS TYPE OF CONTENT. VERY STUBBORN, NEURODIVERGENT, AND I TOLD WHAT TO DO. SO THE MORE YOU ASK ME, TELL YOU. ONE BIG REASON IS THAT MY GENDER IDENTITY, WHAT'S IN MY PANTS, HOW I IDENTIFY, ARE ON A NEED TO KNOW BASIS, NEED TO KNOW. THE SAME'S TRUE ANSWER ANY QUESTION YOU DON'T WANT TO. SO YOU CAN I CAN JUST KEEP NOT TELLING YOU, BOTHERS ME THAT YOU KEEP SAYING, SO ARE YOU? BUT I'M NOT I'M NOT INSULTED. YOU'RE NOT HURTING MY FEELINGS AS MUTCH AS YOU THINK YOU ARE. YOU'RE THE ONES THAT ARE ACTUALLY UPSET BECAUSE I'M NOT GIVING YOU THE THINK YOU'RE ENTITLED TO. BUT A COUPLE DID COME OUT IN THE COMMENT SECTION. FIRST, I MADE A NEW FRIENDS AND CONNECTIONS. LOVE THAT. AND SECOND, I LEARNED THAT THE GOOD OLD GEN X COMEBACK STILL WORK. EXAMPLE ONE PARTICULAR COMMENT. IF I CAN I'LL SAY SOMETHING BUT IT STARTS WITH A C. SOMEBODY SAID YOU'RE A RUNT, AND I SAID, YOUR MOM'S A RUNT, AND THEY, LITTLE OFFENDED. IT'S LIKE, STILL THE YOUR MOM STILL WORKS, SO THAT'S GOOD TO KNOW. OH, AND I NEVER THOUGHT I HAD PARTICULARLY STRONG FEATURES THAT'S ACTUALLY PRETTY FIND THAT OUT. YEAH, THE COMMENT SECTION IS INSANE. DID GET ON OF TIKTOK A BUT YOU KNOW, IT HAPPENS. THE OPINIONS OF INTERNET DON'T BOTHER ME. LIKE, TO PARAPHRASE I LOVE BUT CAN'T FIND BACK THIS IS A TIKTOK COMMENT SECTION. I'M NOT, NOR FUCKING ANYBODY HERE. SO FUCKING ANYBODY HERE. SO THE PEOPLE WHO THINK I HAVE A TWIST HAVE COMPLETELY, 100% TWISTED PANTIES. THAT WAS INTERESTING, A LITTLE FUNNY, AND YEAH, THE MOST LOW EFFORT TROLLING IN THE WORLD. OKAY, BYE.