Relationship dynamic red flag

@kirakirbyy

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Why it worked

The creator taps into a common point of contention in modern relationships, leveraging the relatability of social media dynamics to create an engaging and emotionally resonant piece of content.

Summary

The creator discusses how a partner not engaging with their social media content is a "red flag" in a relationship. She argues that this lack of engagement signifies a lack of public support and validation, which is hurtful and indicative of a toxic dynamic.

Structure

1Introduction of the red flag: partner not engaging on social media
2Dismissal of the 'it's just a like' argument
3Explanation of why engagement matters: recognition, validation, public support
4The creator's personal frustration with this dynamic
5Validation of viewers' feelings if they experience this

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Relationship dynamic red flag

Transcript

Like don't pmo. Okay, maybe I'm just spoiled. But I really do think that your partner not engaging with your content on social media is the weirdest dynamic in a relationship. Like, it's it's so weird and don't even get me started with the argument of, oh, it's just a like, like, it's just Instagram, like, don't take it too seriously. It's not just a like. Are we kidding me? It's recognition, it's validation. It's also just like public support. Like, you should be supporting your partner in a public setting, social media is a public setting. I don't care what people say. People are able to see who has engaged with the post. It just upsets me. Like, if you have this same dynamic or this issue in your relationship, like, your feelings are so valid. It's so weird and it's so much more than a like. Like, don't miss me off.