What's wrong with you?

What's wrong with you? Hey, are you okay? Oh, it was just a joke. Lighten up. I was just kidding, but I clearly missed the mark if you don't think it's funny. Oh, here we go again. Do you want to talk about it? You're being way too sensitive about this. Now that you explain it, I can totally see how that hurts your feelings. You're ridiculous! I'm sorry. You always have to turn everything into such a big argument. Thanks for bringing it up, otherwise I wouldn't have known. And this is why we don't like inviting you places! I think this brought us closer. Would you just get over it? I'm glad we can talk about this stuff. Oh my god, you are such a soft pushover. Well, without repair, there is no relationship. You apologize way too easy. If someone says that I hurt them, who am I to take it to decide if that's true or not? Well, I never would have backed down so easy. Who was the first adult to never apologize to you? What? Who was the first adult who would ignore you, dismiss you, tell you to get over it, tell you to stop crying, or tell you that it wasn't that big of a deal? My mom and my dad. And what was that like? Awful. So why are you doing it to other people? I didn't know there was another way. It's okay to admit you made a mistake. Accountability is pretty cool with the right people. Why does it feel so scary? Because growth is hard and hard things can be scary. But it's worth it. I need to go lie down. Start keeping a journal! Do some shadow work.