I'm going to keep saying this again and again and again until it's tattooed on your brain.

I'm going to keep saying this again and again and again until it's tattooed on your brain. People who refuse to take accountability are always the victim in their own story. Every harmful thing that they do to you feels justified to them. In their mind, they don't think they're the problem. And they will spread lies, start a smear campaign, call you crazy, and play the victim every single time to avoid looking at their own behaviour and actions. They are an unhealed person. They are stuck in denial and shame. They hate themselves and they're walking around this earth like an unhealed zombie, just traumatizing everyone in their path. You are on a healing path. You do not need to play their games anymore. You don't need to convince them what they did was wrong, because that's how they keep you trapped and insecure and tangled in their web. You don't need to defend yourself against people who take their side either. Let them go. They're lost souls, too. And you don't need them to admit that they were wrong for what they did to be real. You know what happened to you. You're never gonna get that apology. Let it go. The real win here is that you get away from them. You're not crazy. You're not overreacting. You know what they did, and you know why it was wrong. Just get away from them. Get away! Get away! And keep ruthlessly editing who gets to have access to you. If someone is hurting you and you're having to explain to them why their behaviour is bad, that's not your job. And they're not going to listen. And you're going to go crazy trying to help them get it. So don't do that. Love you. Bye.