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@girl.advicesxx

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Why it worked

The video uses a relatable analogy (diamond and miner) to convey a common dating frustration, making the advice memorable and shareable. The creator's direct and confident delivery, combined with the topic's relevance to a large audience, likely contributed to its virality.

Summary

The speaker advises women to avoid over-investing in relationships by not initiating calls or texts if the other person isn't. She uses the analogy of a diamond not chasing a miner to illustrate that high-value individuals should not have to pursue others excessively. The speaker emphasizes that this behavioral pattern is crucial for attracting and maintaining a quality partner.

Structure

1Don't chase if he doesn't call or text
2Don't make plans if he doesn't
3Don't become his social coordinator
4A diamond doesn't chase the miner
5High-achieving women forget this in dating
6Your patterns determine the caliber of men you attract

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if he's not if he's not calling you do not call and if he's not and if he's not texting you do not text and if he's and if he's not making plans for the love of God please do please do not become his personal please do not become his personal social coordinator relax with that relax with that a diamond doesn't chase the miner it doesn't scoot it doesn't scoot across the cave pick me I'm it just it just sits there in it just sits there in its value and the miner does and the miner does all the sweating effort intention pursuit that's that's his job that's his job and the problem is a lot of high a lot of high achieving women a lot of high achieving women forget a lot of high achieving women forget this when they're dating yeah you can yeah you can run companies you can lead you can lead teams you can you can lead teams you can close you can lead teams you can close deals but when it comes to you start you're over giving overthinking over texting and suddenly you become the you become the intern in your own love life girl girl after studying and girl after studying and interviewing over 10,000 people I can tell you this I can tell you this is not random it's behavioral it's behavioral the patterns you operate will determine will determine the caliber of will determine the caliber of men that you attract and how and how he treats you and how he treats you every single and how he treats you every single time and getting a man please that is not an keeping keeping the right one keeping the right one and choosing better from the start that's where the shift happens

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