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The video taps into a relatable dating dynamic by explaining the psychological underpinnings of attraction using concepts like the dopamine gap and strategic unavailability. This provides actionable advice framed within a scientific context, making it engaging and shareable.

Summary

The video explains the dopamine gap and how it applies to dating, suggesting that being strategically unavailable and creating mystery can make someone more desirable. The creator advises against being too accessible and emphasizes the importance of having one's own life to maintain intrigue.

Structure

1Introduction to the dopamine gap tactic
2Explanation of neuroscience behind anticipation vs. reward
3The concept of being strategically unavailable
4How unpredictability creates tension and dopamine release
5Applying this to dating to be chased
6Conclusion: maintain your own life and mystery

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be careful be careful using this one because it almost works a little too well if you want that guy listen listen up what I'm about what I'm about to tell you is a real tactic that intelligence intelligence agencies use so CIA FBI and the reason because there's actual neuroscience neuroscience behind this tactic it's called the dopamine gap now it's very simple you're going to be warm with but you're going to be strategically available we're not playing games this is not this is not manipulation okay but you have to understand you can't you can't just be easily accessible the brain the brain releases more dopamine when it anticipates reward rather than when it think of think of Pavlov's dog when something's unpredictable the brain the brain locks in it doesn't know what to do since it's hyper vigilant that's the guy that gives you mixed is the guy is the guy that you can't stop thinking about right he's clearly not into but you just you can't let it go sometimes it is about attachment styles but often times it isn't but often times it isn't that's a whole separate conversation this is this is seduction this is sexy this is charisma this is mystery so if you understand so if you understand your own you you can get ahead of it so this is a just and this is what when he when he always knows that he's gonna hear from you he knows where you he knows where you are you're gonna be he knows where you are you're gonna be available no matter his nervous system which is nice which is nice that's relationship not dating when you need you need to create this you need to be chased and when you're a little harder you need to be chased and when you're a little harder to catch his brain doesn't his brain doesn't get any closure and the brain and the brain hates an open loop it hates it it feels so uncomfortable so that man so that man is gonna start wondering is she gonna text he may but he's wondering when you're then he's is she even interested is she even interested see that that's dopamine and that's dopamine and you're creating it not just by being yourself but by having but by having your own life ok de center that man don't don't lose yourself go have fun

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be careful using this one because it almost works a little too well if you want that guy listen listen up what I'm about what I'm about to tell you is a real tactic that intelligence intelligence agencies use so CIA FBI and the reason because there's actual neuroscience neuroscience behind this tactic it's called the dopamine gap now it's very simple you're going to be warm with but you're going to be strategically available we're not playing games this is not this is not manipulation okay but you have to understand you can't you can't just be easily accessible the brain the brain releases more dopamine when it anticipates reward rather than when it think of think of Pavlov's dog when something's unpredictable the brain the brain locks in it doesn't know what to do since it's hyper vigilant that's the guy that gives you mixed is the guy is the guy that you can't stop thinking about right he's clearly not into but you just you can't let it go sometimes it is about attachment styles but often times it isn't but often times it isn't that's a whole separate conversation this is this is seduction this is sexy this is charisma this is mystery so if you understand so if you understand your own you you can get ahead of it so this is a just and this is what when he when he always knows that he's gonna hear from you he knows where you he knows where you are you're gonna be he knows where you are you're gonna be available no matter his nervous system which is nice which is nice that's relationship not dating when you need you need to create this you need to be chased and when you're a little harder you need to be chased and when you're a little harder to catch his brain doesn't his brain doesn't get any closure and the brain and the brain hates an open loop it hates it it feels so uncomfortable so that man so that man is gonna start wondering is she gonna text he may but he's wondering when you're then he's is she even interested is she even interested see that that's dopamine and that's dopamine and you're creating it not just by being yourself but by having but by having your own life ok de center that man don't don't lose yourself go have fun