I THINK PEOPLE

I THINK PEOPLE WITH THEIR CHILDREN STOP PAYING ATTENTION TO THEMSELVES, AND TO THEIR PARTNER. EXPERIENCE OF PEOPLE WHO ARE OBSESSED WITH THEIR CHILDREN. I DON'T MEAN PEOPLE A HIGH PRIORITY IN THEIR LIFE. I'M TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE THAT ARE LIKE OBSESSED WITH THEIR CHILDREN, THIS IS WHO I AM. I AM A MOTHER. THIS IS WHO I AM. I AM A FATHER. WHICH BECAUSE, BY THE WAY, CHILDHOOD IS A TEMPORARY STATE. LIKE THEORETICALLY YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A VERY CLOSE AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS WITH YOUR SPOUSE A LOT LONGER THAN YOUR CHILDREN. IF IT'S DONE PROPERLY, ARE SUPPOSED TO LEAVE AND GO START THEIR OWN FAMILIES AND LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES, WHEREAS YOUR PARTNER IS NOT SUPPOSED TO IN 19 YEARS OR 18 YEARS, MOVE OUT. THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO STAY THERE. SO IT'S KIND OF SMART TO ALSO FEED, NOT ONLY FEED, ALSO FEED THAT RELATIONSHIP.