DON'T TEXT THIS

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Why it worked

The video provides actionable, relatable advice on dating communication, using a clear "do this, not that" format that is easy to understand and apply.

Summary

The video contrasts ineffective "don't text this" dating advice with effective "text this" examples. It emphasizes asking open-ended questions that spark emotion and reveal personality over generic inquiries.

Structure

1Introduce "Don't Text This" vs "Text This"
2Example 1: Asking for a date
3Example 2: Offering to buy lunch
4Example 3: Describing a perfect date
5Explain why specific questions work better

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DON'T TEXT THIS When can I see you? What You Eat? Tell me about yourself TEXT THIS Going for drinks. Thursday at 7pm. Let me know if you can make it. Apple Pay Her $30 Get you some lunch babe If you had to do one perfect date in 6 words or less what words would you use? open-ended questions boring specific questions emotion reveal personality But helps

Transcript

text DON'T TEXT THIS When can I see you? What You Eat? Tell me about yourself TEXT THIS Going for drinks. Thursday at 7pm. Let me know if you can make it. Apple Pay Her $30 Get you some lunch babe If you had to do one perfect date in 6 words or less what words would you use? Now instead of asking her what she ate, you just created an experience that she'll remember. Lastly DON'T TEXT THIS Tell me about yourself Hey had in less words use open-ended questions boring specific questions emotion reveal personality But helps