It's better to not text a girl at all than it is to text her just to see if she texts you back and still likes you. The needy temperature check text probably murdered more relationships than Chris Brown. This is gonna completely change the way you see texting, bro. You don't wanna be texting all day just so that you have a response and you can play this ping pong and you get the warm and fuzzies. You're asking questions you don't really care about. You're sending things. You're, like, trying, thinking, what's an inside joke I could reference? If you have some shit, you want to text her, right? You want to see her. You see something that actually makes you think of her. You're experiencing something in your life. You wanna, right, send a little picture, share it with her, play offense. What? W. Yeah, yeah, but sending defensive text just to keep the ball rolling, just so you have a little bit. As soon as you send it now, you're like, oh, when's she gonna respond? When's she gonna respond? It's festering and coming from this needy energy that's just gonna sap your energy, right? Create this frame where you are obligated in the relationship to text all day. It's not about playing games. It's not about, oh, let me create the appearance that I'm too busy to be texting all day. You should actually just be too busy to text all day. The good internal frame around this is one text is not gonna make her break whether or not she likes you. Right? Like, would you stop liking a girl you were attracted to because of one thing? Maybe if it was, like, pretty horrendous inducing. Sure, there. There is a text, there is a combination of human letters that could do that. But speaking in the 99.99% of instances, if I really like someone, they can text me whatever the fuck they want and we just enjoy being two humans together. And you're not diffusing a bomb here. You're sharing your human experience and making plans with someone. And if they don't wanna respond or they don't wanna interact, those plans, that's not on you. That's okay. Abundance mindset. Like every dude in his 20s has to learn to not get super attached at the beginning, so there's nothing wrong with you for that. Um, but that, the constantly texting, as I said, the beginning is a manifestation of insecure attachment. It's a temperature check. It's like, oh, I wanna make sure she still likes me. I wanna make sure I have that female dopamine coming in. But turn your attention towards the things that you need to be focused on and go crush it. And she'll be there. She'll be attracted to you because you're going out there and crushing it. Follow for more sauce.
