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Being too nice is not kindness. It is often self-erasure.
@profsalele
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Why it worked
The video offers relatable advice on personal boundaries and self-respect, resonating with viewers who struggle with people-pleasing tendencies. The direct and assertive tone, combined with clear examples, makes the message impactful and shareable.
Summary
The speaker discusses how being too nice and people-pleasing can lead to self-erasure, a lack of convictions, and ultimately disappointing oneself and others. They emphasize that strong boundaries are essential and that people-pleasing behavior often results in disrespect and a failure to stand up for oneself.
Structure
- 1Being too nice is not kindness, but self-erasure.
- 2Excessive agreeableness signals a lack of convictions.
- 3Confidence is built on principles, not approval.
- 4People-pleasing leads to disappointing others and abandoning oneself.
- 5Weak boundaries invite disrespect.
- 6Constantly saying 'yes' leads to disappointment and self-abandonment.
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Being too nice is not kindness. It is often self-erasure.
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Being too nice is not kindness. It is often self-erasure. Excessive agreeableness tells people you have no convictions. You avoid conflict because you stand for nothing worth defending. Confidence is built on principles, not approval. People-pleasing is another trap. You spend your life trying to satisfy everyone, yet everyone wants something different from you. In the end, you disappoint others while abandoning yourself. Weak boundaries invite disrespect. When people know you rarely say no, they push further. You become predictable, easy to control, and easy to take for granted. Respect does not come from endless accommodation. It comes from clear standards, firm boundaries, and the courage to disappoint people when necessary. Stop living for approval. Start living by principle. #Psychology #SelfRespect #Boundaries #Confidence #SelfMastery
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