Being nice is hurting you

Being nice is hurting you. Being nice might be destroying your life. Let me explain. I'm not talking about being rude, not talking about treating people bad. I'm talking about the habit of always putting someone else ahead of you. Always saying yes, avoiding conflict, about worrying about disappointing people. That feeling. Years, everybody happy. Situations than have, avoided conversations. Hurting feelings than own. Exhausted, resentful, and myself. Here's what I finally realised. Never no, eventually saying your own life. Every yes don't time back. Time something wrong, teaching they want when peace else, the raised dependable, hard, mouth. Those qualities. Along us believing ourselves first. That's regret somebody to doesn't priorities, you no. Is advantage generosity. Distance. Call something. Don't answer. Still and respectful. Can kindness boundaries resentment. And resentment joys. What changed. Stopped everyone instead, wanted meant decisions, boundaries, protecting health, time, and my future. Hardest done was people. Raised where you rubbed it, walked you everyone. Your help do can. Hard. Myself everything changed. More person become people to out is starting over at 57. I'm coach, people over, get jobs, understand finances. Love fact people single to do need and like water you're you. For I'll one. Thanks for watching guys and I'll see you in the next one.