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The video likely resonated with viewers due to its raw and emotional storytelling, addressing themes of abuse, resilience, and the desire for a better future for children. The creator's vulnerability and the relatable struggle likely fostered a strong connection and encouraged engagement.

Summary

The creator shares a story about her past abusive marriage and how she endured it for nine years. She highlights the control her ex-husband exerted, his lack of financial support, and his emotional manipulation. The story culminates with a recent incident that made her realize she needed to leave for her children's sake.

Structure

1Introduction of the creator's past and marriage at 19.
2Description of her husband's controlling behavior and financial abuse.
3The birth of her children and the continuation of the abuse.
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‎سەیری ڤیدیۆی تەواو بکەن لە یوتیوب Follow for part two Or go to my YouTube ‎فولو للجزء الثاني ‎او تكدرون تشوفون كامل الفيديو ‎باليوتيوب @PrincessFromKurdistan On YT U can watch the full video on YouTube at PrincessFromKurdistan All products from @isima ✨ 💚 Riquísima Shampoo ✨ 💖 Suavísima Conditioner ✨ ❤️ Súperbomba Mask ✨ 💛 All In Leave-In ✨ 💗 Curls Don’t Lie ✨ 💓 Delicia Oil Not sponsored, just obsessed 💚💗❤️💛💜 ——— #explore #fyp #foryou #kurdish #stroytime

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SHE WOULD MARRY A MAN EXACTLY LIKE HIM. I HAD ONE SECRET. ME: FEMALE, 28. ME: FEMALE, 28. I'M WRITING THIS FROM A SMALL ROOM IN A CITY MY HUSBAND DOESN'T KNOW EXISTS. I HAVE TWO CHILDREN A SON, SIX, AND A DAUGHTER, FOUR. THEY ARE NOT WITH ME. YOU WHY I GOT MARRIED AT 19 LET'S NAME HIM AHMED: HE WAS FROM MY VILLAGE EVERYONE SAID HE WAS A GOOD MAN OUR WEDDING WAS REALLY NICE AND LOVELY. BUT THE PROBLEM STARTED AFTER THE FIRST TIME HE I WAS 20 AND PREGNANT WITH OUR SON. HE APOLOGIZED FOR A WEEK, HE CRIED MORE THAN I DID. FORGAVE HIM BECAUSE I WAS YOUNG AND PREGNANT AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT ELSE I DIDN'T WANT MY SON TO BE SEPARATED FROM HIS FATHER IT NEVER STOPPED! FOR NINE YEARS, HE CONTROLLED EVERYTHING. HE TOOK MY SALARY THE DAY I GOT MARRIED AND NEVER GAVE IT BACK. NEVER GAVE ME ANY MONEY HE HELD MY ID CARD IN HIS DRAWER HE GAVE ME A SMALL AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR GROCING AND COUNTED WHEN I CAME HOME FOR NINE YEARS THIS WAS MY LIFE. HE TOLD THE WHOLE VILLAGE I HAD MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS, SO NO ONE WOULD ASK WHY I NEVER OR FAMILY GATHERINGS. MY OWN MOTHER HE DIDN'T LET ME VISIT MY OWN SISTER WITHOUT HER BEING WITH US TWO WEEKS AGO, HE BEAT ME IN THE KITCHEN BECAUSE THE TEA WAS TOO COLD. MY DAUGHTER WAS STANDING IN THE DOORWAY WATCHING SHE DIDN'T CRY. SHE DIDN'T SCREAM. SHE THE MOMENT I KNEW IF I STAYED, SHE WOULD GROW UP THINKING THIS WAS NORMAL SHE WOULD MARRY A MAN EXACTLY LIKE HIM. I HAD ONE SECRET.

Transcript

SHE WOULD MARRY A MAN EXACTLY LIKE HIM. I HAD ONE SECRET. ME: FEMALE, 28. ME: FEMALE, 28. I'M WRITING THIS FROM A SMALL ROOM IN A CITY MY HUSBAND DOESN'T KNOW EXISTS. I HAVE TWO CHILDREN A SON, SIX, AND A DAUGHTER, FOUR. THEY ARE NOT WITH ME. YOU WHY I GOT MARRIED AT 19 LET'S NAME HIM AHMED: HE WAS FROM MY VILLAGE EVERYONE SAID HE WAS A GOOD MAN OUR WEDDING WAS REALLY NICE AND LOVELY. BUT THE PROBLEM STARTED AFTER THE FIRST TIME HE I WAS 20 AND PREGNANT WITH OUR SON. HE APOLOGIZED FOR A WEEK, HE CRIED MORE THAN I DID. FORGAVE HIM BECAUSE I WAS YOUNG AND PREGNANT AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT ELSE I DIDN'T WANT MY SON TO BE SEPARATED FROM HIS FATHER IT NEVER STOPPED! FOR NINE YEARS, HE CONTROLLED EVERYTHING. HE TOOK MY SALARY THE DAY I GOT MARRIED AND NEVER GAVE IT BACK. NEVER GAVE ME ANY MONEY HE HELD MY ID CARD IN HIS DRAWER HE GAVE ME A SMALL AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR GROCING AND COUNTED WHEN I CAME HOME FOR NINE YEARS THIS WAS MY LIFE. HE TOLD THE WHOLE VILLAGE I HAD MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS, SO NO ONE WOULD ASK WHY I NEVER OR FAMILY GATHERINGS. MY OWN MOTHER HE DIDN'T LET ME VISIT MY OWN SISTER WITHOUT HER BEING WITH US TWO WEEKS AGO, HE BEAT ME IN THE KITCHEN BECAUSE THE TEA WAS TOO COLD. MY DAUGHTER WAS STANDING IN THE DOORWAY WATCHING SHE DIDN'T CRY. SHE DIDN'T SCREAM. SHE THE MOMENT I KNEW IF I STAYED, SHE WOULD GROW UP THINKING THIS WAS NORMAL SHE WOULD MARRY A MAN EXACTLY LIKE HIM. I HAD ONE SECRET.