I'll be frank

The video resonates because it offers a counter-intuitive perspective on forgiveness, directly addressing the pain caused by narcissistic abuse and validating the decision not to forgive as a form of self-preservation and healing.

A psychologist explains why she chooses not to forgive narcissistic individuals in her life, stating that the harm they caused changed her self-perception and took away her sense of safety. She believes that true healing comes from individuation and becoming one's authentic self, which may not always involve forgiveness.