Ladies, if you date men,

Ladies, if you date men, fucking listen to me. I just turned 30 and I have some big sister advice for you. Alright, so a lot of these men that you're dating fucking hate you and you may be, there saying, "but why would he be dating me if he hates me?" We need to just preface this by saying you need to understand how much men like to bonk. They like it a lot. They love it. They will do almost anything for it. They will date you just so they have access to the bonk, okay? That's what they like to do. They love it so much. Okay, understand how much they love it. They love it a lot and they will fake their entire personality, everything, just so that they can bone you, okay, especially in the early days of dating. That's why as soon as you notice that a man hates you, you fucking leave. Okay, I once went on a first date with a guy and it was to a restaurant that I'd already been to when I met him. He reached out through social media. He seemed nice, he seemed funny, he seemed charming. We were getting along, we went for drinks beforehand and then we get to the restaurant, we order, blah, blah blah. I always get the same thing whenever I go to that particular restaurant and usually they fill up the sauce just this much teensy weensy little bit, but This time they've overfilled it and the pot was filled to the top with the mushroom sauce. I go to pour it, which is usually a suitable amount, but it was filled so it just went glomp all over my steak. Okay? And while I'm doing it, as that happens, I go, "✨🥺🎀 OOP 🎀🥺✨" And I look up and I peer up and I quickly see my date doing this face, a sneer of like resentment, of just like hatred. I never saw that man again. And you may be saying why? He may have just been reacting to the sauce thing. I have seen a man with that look of hatred only once in my life. When I was dating this guy and I knew he was up to mischief, I went through his phone and I found all these messages, right? And when I first told him, he did the crying, he did the I'm sorry, blah, blah. But then when he realised that wouldn't work, the tone shifted. And it was like watching an actor take off their makeup and get out of their costume. The way that his face changed, his voice changed, his posture changed. And it was like, he was like, uh, this is done. The mask can come off. And I saw in real time him transition from the person that I thought I was dating to the person I was actually dating, which was a horrible, evil man. When at first I was like, but like, how could this have happened? Like there were no signs. And then I actually thought it through. Oh no, there was were signs actually. when we were on holiday, no, I he did look at me like that and he hated me. He resented me. And once you've been through that as a woman, you can't unsee it. And you can't unsee how much they will just like keep inside how much they hate you for months, for decades So, yeah, as soon as he does something fucked and you're like, I don't think he likes me, he doesn't like you, leave.