MY THERAPIST QUIT ME

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The video likely resonated due to its relatable theme of personal growth after a significant life change (losing a therapist) combined with a commentary on societal trends and parenting, presented in a candid and conversational style.

Summary

The video features a creator discussing their feelings about their therapist quitting after seven years. They reflect on the situation, noting the prevalence of certain aesthetics and the potential for unhealthy dependence on therapists, drawing parallels to a previous review video about parenting advice.

Structure

1Therapist quits after 7 years
2Creator feels frozen and is starting to breathe again
3Observation of certain aesthetics and the prevalence of 'cat ladies'
4Critique of parents allowing children to be 'whatever'
5Reflection on unhealthy dependence on therapists
6Concern about therapists' career moves and the long-term nature of therapy relationships

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MY THERAPIST QUIT ME IT'S ALMOST BEEN ONE YEAR SINCE I LOST MY THERAPIST OF SEVEN YEARS AND TODAY MY NEW THERAPIST TOLD ME THAT SHE'S LEAVING I'M GOING TO WORK AT THE LOCAL COLLEGE TO SEE COLLEGE STUDENTS SO UM I HAVE A LOT OF FEELINGS. I THINK THE BIGGEST FEELING IS FEAR AFTER LOSING MY THERAPIST OF SEVEN YEARS I FELT LIKE, FROZEN IN TIME FOR A WHILE. AND WITHIN THE PAST FEW MONTHS I'M FINALLY, FINALLY FINALLY STARTING TO BREATHE AGAIN I CONTRIBUTE THAT A LOT TO A LOT TO THIS NEW THERAPIST A CAT THAT'S CLIMBING AT THE TOP YO LISTEN I KNEW THAT CAT LADIES WAS LIKE A REAL THING I DID NOT KNOW THAT CAT LADIES WERE AS PREVALENT LIKE FOR REAL FOR REAL LIKE THEY REALLY ARE THIS WHOLE SCENE LOOKS CRAZY LIKE THAT'S NOT JUST A NOSE THAT'S A THAT'S A SPIRAL THING YOU KNOW LIKE I'M LOOKING AT THE TATTOOS AND I OF OBVIOUSLY WE'VE ALL SEEN THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE BEFORE UM AND I'M LOOKING HAIR AND THE THE EARLOBE THINGS AND ALL OF THIS STUFF LOOK LIKE JAILHOUSE TATTOOS AND STUFF THEY GOT THE CATS CLIMBING AROUND IN THE BACKGROUND SHABBY AND I JUST BE THINKING TO WHAT IS GOING ON WHERE ARE THE PARENTS AND WHY ARE Y'ALL ALLOWING FOR CHILDREN TO JUST JUST BE WHATEVER IT'S LIKE THE KIDS JUST GROW UP AND THEY GET MORE INTO WHAT THEY DOING WITH WHICH YOU KNOW FIRST I'MMA GET TO THE THERAPY SITUATION IN A SECOND BECAUSE I THINK THAT THAT IS A SCAM AND ANYTIME THAT SOMEBODY BECOMES INTERDEPENDENT ON A FOR YEARS THAT IS CRAZY CRAZY TO ME ABSOLUTELY INSANE TO SO THAT'S ONE THING BUT I I DID A REVIEW VIDEO AND THE WOMAN WAS DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS BE WEIRD AND I THINK THE PERSONIFICATION OF HER I'M JUST YOU SHE PUT THIS ON THE INTERNET IT'S CRAZY AND WE HAVE TO START ADDRESSING THIS AND NIPPING IT IN THE BUD BE ADDRESSED WAY EARLIER IN LIFE WAY EARLIER IN LIFE YOU CANNOT ALLOW FOR YOUR CHILDREN TO GROW UP AND BE LOOKING INSANE AND CRAZY AND START TO BECOME INTERDEPENDENT ON THE OUTSIDE WORLD TO WHERE THEY START CRASHING OUT LONGER HAVE A THERAPIST THAT THEY'VE BEEN SEEING FOR OVER 7 YEARS DO YOU KNOW HOW INSANE THAT SEEING A THERAPIST FOR OVER 7 YEARS SOME TYPE OF LIKE Y'ALL UP RELATIONSHIP WHEN THE THERAPIST DECIDE THAT THEY A CAREER MOVE TO MOVE OVER INTO A COLLEGE PROBABLY TO GET MORE STABILITY AND A FINANCIAL SITUATION AND MAYBE EVEN WORK WITH AND HELP SOME OTHER PEOPLE KNOW HOW INSANE IT HAS TO FOR A PERSON SOME TYPE OF WAY ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH THEIR THERAPIST THAT I DIDN'T KNOW THAT THERAPIST WAS SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOU THIS I THOUGHT THAT THERAPIST WAS SUPPOSED TO SUPPOSEDLY I THINK THAT SCAM BUT I THOUGHT THEY WERE SUPPOSED THE TOOLS THAT YOU NEED TO GO ON OWN LIFE AND DO YOUR OWN TO BE SUCCESSFUL

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"My Therapist Broke Up With Me," Extreme Liberal Woman Crashing Out, Never Got Better After 7 Years#antondaniels #crashout #therapist #liberal #brokeup

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Transcript

Guess who's losing another therapist. My new therapist told me that she's leaving. I'm going to work at the local college to see college students. So, um, I have a lot of feelings. I think the biggest feeling is fear. After losing my therapist of seven years, I felt like, frozen in time for a while. And within the past few months, I'm finally, finally, finally starting to breathe again. I contribute that a lot to this new therapist. A cat that's climbing at the top. Yo, listen. I knew that cat ladies was like a real thing. I did not know that cat ladies were as prevalent, like for real, for real, like they really are. This whole scene looks crazy. Like that's not just a nose ring, that's a spiral thing. You know, like I'm looking at the tattoos and I, obviously we've all seen these type of people before. Um, and I'm looking at the hair and the earlobe things and all of this stuff. Look like jailhouse tattoos and stuff. They got the cats climbing around in the background. Shabby. And I just be thinking to myself, what is going on? Where are the parents? And why are y'all allowing for children to just, just be whatever? It's like the kids just grow up and they get more into what they doing with, which, you know, first, I'm gonna get to the therapy situation in a second because I think that that is a scam. And anytime that somebody becomes interdependent on a therapist for years, that is crazy. Crazy to me. Absolutely insane to me. So that's one thing. But I, I did a review video and the woman was, do not let your kids be weird. And I think the personification of her, I'm just, you know, she put this on the internet. It's crazy and we have to start addressing this and nipping it in the bud. This has to be addressed way earlier in life. Way earlier in life. You cannot allow for your children to grow up and be looking insane and crazy and start to become interdependent on the outside world to where they start crashing out, longer have a therapist that they've been seeing for over seven years. Do you know how insane that sounds? Seeing a therapist for over seven years, some type of, like, y'all, up relationship when the therapist decide that they a career move to move over into a college, probably to get more stability and a financial situation and maybe even work with and help some other people. But you know how insane it has to be for a person, some type of way about breaking up with their therapist that I didn't know that therapist was supposed to be with you this long. I thought that therapist was supposed to supposedly, I think that scam. But I thought they were supposed the tools that you need to go on, own life and do your own to be successful.