Post by @hunter.colier

She's worth the wait. But the wait was never about her — it was about something God is building in you first. You've been asking God the same question on repeat: where is she? But He's been waiting on you to ask a different one — who do I have to become? Because what God is preparing you for was never just a woman. It's a whole life — a purpose, a version of you this season is quietly forming. And the woman you're praying for is standing on the other side of the man you're becoming. So what does becoming actually look like? Get right with God — genuinely, as your foundation. Train your body — it's the first promise you learn to keep. Build your purpose — a man with no mission can't lead anyone. And fix what you keep avoiding — who you are when no one's watching. You don't become him by finding her. You become him in the season she's not here yet. That's what this time is for. And to be clear on "her" — she's not your ex, not one specific girl. She's a caliber — the standard of woman a God-given wife is ("a good thing… favor from the LORD," Proverbs 18:22), meant for the man you become. Not owed. Not earned. Given. You were never meant to just find her. You were meant to become the man worth being handed her. 👉 If you're ready to actually become that man, I coach men one-on-one through exactly this. Link in bio — let's build.