The exact moment she walks into your life:

This is the exact moment your future wife walks into your life. And most men never reach it. Here's what I truly believe: she doesn't walk in on a date on a calendar. She walks in the exact moment God looks at you and says — now he's ready. Now he's built. That's the moment. Not a time. A readiness. So why do most men never get there? Not because God is withholding her. Because they're not willing to accept what it actually takes to be ready. The woman is a gift — "he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD" (Proverbs 18:22). But a gift like that is handed to a prepared man. God isn't going to hand His daughter to a man who hasn't become who she needs. And that man doesn't happen by accident. He's forged. He put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6:11) and he learned to fight — for his faith, his discipline, his character — for himself first. "Fight the good fight of the faith" (1 Timothy 6:12). "Faith without works is dead" (James 2:17). To be clear — this isn't earning her, and it's not one specific soulmate. It's being formed into the caliber of man the caliber of woman God prepares is meant for. Not owed. Not bought. Prepared. So she's not waiting on a day. She's waiting on the man who finally picked up the sword and became ready. If you want to learn how to become that man — follow.