God will send her the moment you accept your mission:

God will send her the moment you accept your mission. And most men never even figure out what it is. Here's what you've been doing without realizing it: you've made finding a woman your entire mission. Every prayer, every thought, every ounce of energy — pointed at her. And that's exactly why it keeps not working. Because you weren't put on this earth just to find a woman. You were put here for a purpose — a mission — that comes first. "Seek first the kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you" (Matthew 6:33). She's in the "all these things." She gets added — but only to a man who's actually pursuing the first thing. "We are His workmanship, created for good works God prepared beforehand for us" (Ephesians 2:10). You have an assignment. She's not it — she comes with it. So stop making a woman the whole point of your life. Find your purpose. Build the man God's calling you to be. Get on the mission you've been avoiding. Your mission was never to find her. It was to find yourself first. And here's the promise: she comes with the building. She truly does. To be clear — "her" isn't one specific soulmate. She's the caliber of woman added to the man who's on his mission. If you want to learn how to become that man — follow.