Is shadowboxing a problem in relationships?

Uhhh let me know I guess? #relationships #shadowboxing I saw a video where a woman was explaining that choosing a partner, um, I believe she was talking about men, and I'm just gonna assume cause most of the comments were from women talking about men. Choosing a partner who knows how to act in social situations, um, and stuff and, you know, just typical scenarios you might run into in public is very valuable and, you know, because you don't want someone by your side who is going to, you know, take 20 minutes too long to tell a story or make inappropriate jokes or act in a way that is really, like I said, just not appropriate for that setting. And I kept seeing, I saw dozens of comments like this. Comment after comment after comment of women talking about, oh my god, I couldn't take my ex anywhere because he just kept shadowboxing in public. We'd be in line waiting for food at a restaurant and he'd keep shadowboxing. We'd be in the department store and he'd just kept shadowboxing and like, almost hitting people. I'm like, who the fuck are you guys hanging out with? I'm serious, okay? And I know that like as someone who's been single for a while, um, by choice, obviously, I like, why would you do that to yourself? You're telling me multiple times, you knew that he did this and he acted like this and you're not blaming the women, but like, what is this phenomenon? I have to say, I've never seen this in public, okay? And maybe I just got lucky. But is this more common than I think with guys? I've never hung out with a guy that did this, which is why I'm asking. It's kind of baffling. And these are grown women, like these are not teenagers, you know, I'm looking at their profile, 30, 40, you know, whatever, some of them over 50 years old. So, you know, they're middle-aged, okay? And they're talking about, yeah, he just wouldn't stop shadowboxing in public. I remember guys doing that in the hallway in middle school and not much after that. I like, where are you finding these people? Is this some sort of phenomenon I'm not aware of?