why do dudes want their wife to be a loser

why do dudes want their wife to be a loser? Dudes will be like, I can't wait to succeed so that my wife can have a small business that loses $15,000 a month. Why in your own fantasy is your wife an idiotic loser? Like, I don't understand. I know a lot of guys just like regurgitate this and they're like, oh, but but it's it's cute because like she can have fun and like, wouldn't you rather marry an intelligent woman who can legitimately run her own business without any of your help and she can profit from it? You guys both can profit from it. Like, what is this weird narrative about like, oh, like, you know, I just want my wife to be this like, you know, content little like fucking moron who can, you know, like, no. No. You should not want to marry someone that is a loser. Women can be losers as well. Every time I talk about this, I get called a pick me, but it's totally true. It's loser is not does not discriminate based on gender. It doesn't, okay? There are losers in every single group in the entire world, okay? If you are a guy and you seriously, you know, you have all these goals and dreams and whatever and you're like, I'm going to do this and I'm going to have this business or, you know, you're like, maybe inheriting something from your parents, please choose wisely. Do not listen to these fucking weirdos who are posting on this app like, oh yeah, I just want my wife to, you know, hang out and be at home all the time and I want it's like, no, you should want her to also be a go-getter because if she's not, and you're the one working all the time, it's going to get tense really fast. That's all I'm going to say.