You're a mom divorcing an abuser and your kids are with him this weekend

You have more power to protect your kids right now than you realize. Not in court. Not through lawyers. Right now. In your home. Your abusive ex is lying to your kids about you. Smearing your name. Lying about your character. Pulling your kids away from you one visit at a time. And he’s laying on his victim sob story so thick your kids can’t see through it. Then everyone around you is telling you to stay calm. Stay quiet. Take the high road. Hell no. Staying quiet while he battles to control your kids hearts, minds and loyalty doesn’t help them. At all. I lived this. Same man. Same lies. Watching my daughter pull away from me one visit at a time. So instead of waiting and hoping she’d figure it out on her own — I got strategic. Without trash talking him. Without putting her in the middle. Calm and strategic. 3 things that changed everything: 1 — Planted the truth in her mind. So when he lied about me, she had something real to compare it to. 2 — Strengthened our bond deliberately. So she knew without a single doubt — I was her rock. Always. 3 — Stopped letting him trigger me. So his lies and accusations had nowhere to land. My daughter trusted me. She felt safe with me. Our bond became unbreakable — no matter what he said or did. That’s exactly what the Empower Your Kids Method is. It’s the method good moms use when they realize silence isn’t helping their kids. Reply METHOD for the rest of the strategy. #divorce #narcissisticabuse #coparenting #parentalalienation #singlemoms