Your Mother is the reason why you are broke! Science explains....

Your mother. Your mother is the reason why you're broke. Your mommy is the reason why you're broke. And before you scroll off, pause, let me explain it. It's not about blame, it's about science. Firstly, I received this review on my books, I think it was this weekend. And I'm not trying to call this particular person out, but you understand how this is a bit nonsensical. I'm an author, a small author at that. And I don't produce or publish the books from my bedroom. I wish, I, you know, I'm high maintenance, I would love to do it myself. But Amazon does it for me. And just like everything else on Amazon, if you have an issue with a product, what do you do? You write customer service. You don't go write review on that product, right? And customer service with Amazon, they're brilliant. Impeccable, actually. Within 24 hours you get your money back and a brand new book in your mail. So there's absolutely no point to go write technical errors on my reviews because that affects me as the author, not Amazon themselves. You think Jeff Bezos cares about. No, but it affects me. So next time you have an issue with any of my books, call Amazon or write them. And within 24 hours it will be resolved. Understood? How Mom Ruined Your Life and Economic Prospects Before You Were Born A spate of new studies looks at the lifelong economic impacts of in-utero stress. But here's the science behind mommy issues equals money issues. Our brain is not built or born, right? With money relationships. You're given one. And think about every single household, who handles the finances in those households? Usually, from the beginning of time, the woman. The man usually will go out and make the money, and the woman is the one who deals with the money inside the household. So here's what research shows. Research shows that between birth and age seven, your brain is in a theta dominant state. Essentially, a hypnotic state of pure absorption. No filter, no critical thinking, no ability to reject what it receives. Everything your mother modeled, said, felt, and believed about money went directly into your subconscious without a single gate to stop it. Her anxiety about bills became your anxiety about bills. Her belief that money was hard to get became your body's set point for financial struggle. Here's the research. You did not choose any of it. However, you've been living like this since you were seven years old, and it's your responsibility and only yours to change this dynamic. When you guys come into my coaching call, especially if you're a lady, and you tell me that you are very financially stressed, you're not very good with money, you don't know how to hold on to it, how to retain it. The first thing I ask every single time is what's your relationship like with your mother? And therein lies the answer every single time. I have never been wrong once. Mummy issues, money issues. If she believed that people who are rich are greedy, guess what? You believe the same. If she believes that money is hard to come by, that's also your belief, your subconscious belief. There's a code running your subconscious that's written by your mother since you were a child. And I know this to be true. I wrote it in yes, you can have it all. If someone has a mother wound, I always know it's going to lead to a very tumultuous relationship with money every single time. Here's how I healed my mother once and eventually broke the code because I kept making money, losing it, making money, losing it. And I did it in two steps. one, named the code. Get a pen and paper out and write down her relationship with money, not yours. Not what you believe, what you felt as a child, how you saw her around money. I wrote it down in details about three years ago, when I started working on my mother wound, right? Two break up with mummy in your head at least. Separate your story from hers. What you know, when you know better, you do better. Our mothers did not know better, right? What she knew was just her map. It's not a prophecy over your life. Cut that relationship out cold turkey. The parts where you guys are codependent when it comes to your brain and your nervous system. And bonus points, use neuroplasticity to your advantage. I've always said this. It's always on our side, right? So, rewire your nervous system. And if you need help with that, link in bio. New affirmations every single day. Remember, identity first, behavior second. You have to start telling your brain and your nervous system that you're the kind of person who can make money and hold money, and your relationship with your mother has nothing to do with the life that you're building. And I want to make this very clear. It's not about blaming your mom. I don't believe in that. I believe in radical accountability, right? No matter what she did to me, it's my responsibility to fix it. And so, it's yours as well to fix it. I am so proud of you. If you are breaking and interrupting a generational transmission, the code ends here. And the wealth that your family lineage deserves starts with you. I know that with certainty. I will be teaching this using epigenetics and gene expressions, my master class, August 23rd, 2 PM EST. It ends with us. I'll see you there. I believe in you, and I pray you always believe in yourself. Stay fabulous. Bye bye