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i was their 10/10 daughter

@najah.strength

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Why it worked

The video uses a relatable and emotionally resonant narrative of personal growth and boundary-setting, employing a clear numerical scale that simplifies the message and encourages engagement through shared experiences.

Summary

The video contrasts the creator's past self, who was a "10/10 daughter" seeking approval, with her present self who has set boundaries and prioritized her own well-being and children. She uses a rating system from 10/10 down to 0/10 to illustrate how her self-worth has increased as her perceived "score" in her family's eyes has decreased.

Structure

1The "10/10 daughter" persona
2Setting boundaries and chasing dreams
3Standing up for herself and questioning behavior
4Prioritizing self and children
5Becoming a "0/10" to her family but a "10/10" to herself

On-screen text

i was their 10/10 daughter A student good girl the quiet one 9/10 When I said No to them 8/10 When I chased MY dreams 7/10 When I stood up For myself 6/10 When I questioned Their behaviour 5/10 When I quit seeking Their approval 4/10 When I stopped letting them Take credit For my success 3/10 When I stopped Being afraid of them 2/10 When I put my own children first 1/10 When I refused to Forgive them 'Just bc they're family' Now I'm a 0/10 to them And a 10/10 to myself

Original caption

I was a good girl but now I'm not . Now I am : ✨ the mother who fiercely protects the wellbeing of her children by protecting myself 👉🏻 the wife who is able to receive love because she believes she is worthy of it 🥹 the coach who sees the pain that women endure in a bid to please everyone else And I'm also just me. No longer defined by labels I didn't opt in to , no longer terrified of failing to abide by contracts I NEVER Signed. If you are HER then know this : Your life is going to be a thousandfold better when you establish boundaries . When you establish boundaries you're going to LOSE A LOT OF PEOPLE. When you lose a lot of people there will be space for growth , peace and abundance . Go find out who you are girl .. with or without them : you owe it to yourself to live an authentic life. I got you 🤍