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PARENTS LISTEN CAREFULLY YOU CAN LOVE YOUR YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CHILD DEEPLY AND STILL DAMAGE THEIR FUTURE WITHOUT REALISING IT NOT EVERY WOUND YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... COMES FROM A PHYSICAL INJURY SOME WOUNDS COME FROM WORDS YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... COMPARISONS AND THE WAY A CHILD IS TREATED EVERY DAY YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... AND TODAY I WANT EVERY PARENT YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... TO LISTEN WITH AN OPEN HEART YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... THERE ARE THREE YOU MUST BE CAREFUL ABOUT YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... FIRST CONSTANTLY CRITICIZING YOUR CHILD YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CORRECTION IS NECESSARY BUT IF EVERY MISTAKE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... IS FOLLOWED BY YOU ARE USELESS YOU YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CAN NEVER DO ANYTHING RIGHT YOU WILL NEVER BECOME ANYTHING YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... THOSE WORDS CAN STAY IN A CHILD'S HEART FOR YEARS YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CORRECT THE BEHAVIOUR DO NOT DESTROY CONFIDENCE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... YOUR CHILD NEEDS TO KNOW I MADE A MISTAKE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... NOT I AM A MISTAKE SECOND COMPARING YOUR CHILD YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... TO OTHER CHILDREN LOOK AT YOUR BROTHER YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... LIKE HER OTHER CHILDREN ARE DOING BETTER THAN YOU YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... PARENTS MAY SAY THESE WORDS BECAUSE THEY WANT THEIR CHILDREN TO IMPROVE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... BUT COMPARISON CAN CREATE SHAME JEALOUSY AND ANGER EVERY YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CHILD IS DIFFERENT GUIDE YOUR CHILD TEACH YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... YOUR CHILD CHALLENGE YOUR CHILD BUT DO NOT MAKE YOUR YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CHILD FEEL THAT THEY MUST BE WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... A TREE DOES NOT GROW BY LOOKING AT ANOTHER TREE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... IT GROWS WHEN IT IS PROPERLY CARED FOR THIRD PROVIDING MONEY BUT REFUSING TO GIVE YOUR TIME YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... YES YOUR CHILDREN NEED FOOD THEY NEED EDUCATION THEY NEED CLOTHES AND A SAFE HOME YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... BUT THEY ALSO NEED YOU THEY NEED YOUR ATTENTION YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... THEY NEED YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT THEY NEED SOMEONE WHO WILL LISTEN WHEN THEY SPEAK YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... NEVER BECOME SO BUSY BUILDING A FUTURE FOR YOUR CHILDREN THAT YOU FORGET TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM TODAY YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... AND IF YOU GREW UP WITH THESE HABITS REMEMBER THIS YOU DO NOT HAVE TO REPEAT WHAT HURTS YOU YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... YOU CAN BREAK THE PATTERN SPEAK DIFFERENTLY YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... YOU CAN LOVE YOUR CHILDREN DIFFERENTLY YOU CAN BECOME THE PARENT YOU ONCE NEEDED SO ASK YOURSELF TODAY YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... WHEN MY CHILD REMEMBER ME YEARS FROM NOW WHAT WILL THEY REMEMBER FEAR YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... CRITICISM OR LOVE LET US PRAY HEAVENLY FATHER YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... GIVE EVERY PARENT WISDOM PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... HELP US TO CORRECT OUR CHILDREN WITHOUT BREAKING THEIR HEARTS YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... TEACH US TO SPEAK WORDS THAT BUILD THEM GIVE THEM OUR TIME WITH LOVE AND PEACE YOUR CHILD REMEMBERS... HEAL EVERY CHILD CARRYING PAIN FROM THE PAST AND HELP US BREAK EVERY HARMFUL PATTERN IN JESUS NAME AMEN IF YOU'RE A PARENT WHO WANTS TO DO BETTER COMMENT I WILL DO BETTER SHARE THIS MESSAGE WITH A PARENT WHO NEEDS TO HEAR IT AND SUBSCRIBE TO MIND SHIFT TV FOR MORE WISDOM FAMILY VALUES FAITH AND LIFE LESSONS REMEMBER YOUR CHILD MAY FORGET MANY THINGS YOU GAVE THEM BUT THEY WILL REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL

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Parents listen carefully. You can love your child deeply and still damage their future without realizing it. Not every wound comes from a physical injury. Some wounds come from words. Comparisons and the way a child is treated every day. And today, I want every parent to listen with an open heart. There are three habits you must be careful about. First, constantly criticizing your child. Correction is necessary. But if every mistake is followed by, you are useless, you can never do anything right. You will never become anything. Those words can stay in a child's heart for years. Correct the behavior, do not destroy confidence. Your child needs to know I made a mistake, not I am a mistake. Second, comparing your child to other children. Look at your brother. Why can't you be like her? Other children are doing better than you. Parents may say these words because they want their children to improve. But comparison can create shame, jealousy, and anger. Every child is different. Guide your child, teach your child, challenge your child. But do not make your child feel that they must be worthy of your love. A tree does not grow by looking at another tree. It grows when it is properly cared for. Third, providing money, but refusing to give your time. Yes, your children need food, they need education, they need clothes and a safe home. But they also need you. They need your attention. They need your encouragement. They need someone who will listen when they speak. Never become so busy building a future for your children that you forget to build a relationship with them today. And if you grew up with these habits, remember this: you do not have to repeat what hurts you. You can break the pattern. Learn to speak differently. You can love your children differently. You can become the parent you once needed. So ask yourself today, when my child remembers me years from now, what will they remember? Fear, criticism, or love? Let us pray. Heavenly Father, give every parent wisdom, patience, and understanding. Help us to correct our children without breaking their hearts. Teach us to speak words that build them. Give them our time with love and peace. Heal every child carrying pain from the past. And help us break every harmful pattern. In Jesus name, Amen. If you're a parent who wants to do better, comment, I will do better. Share this message with a parent who needs to hear it. And subscribe to Mind Shift TV for more wisdom. Family values, faith, and life lessons. Remember, your child may forget many things you gave them. But they will remember how you made them feel.

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