Dear Black women, what does it feel like to go on a date with somebody,

Dear Black women, what does it feel like to go on a date with somebody, like your first date, and you're all excited and stuff, and you order your food, and then at the very end, you order a bunch of food for your kids, and you expect that man to pay for it. Since we're asking questions, I legitimately have always wondered, how does it feel to raise majority of the mass shooters in this country? Like, do y'all ever just feel some type of like shame for that? Because like, the kids that y'all are raising are growing up to like, you know, become mass murderers. How does that feel? Like, really, I want to know. Like, have y'all ever considered it might be like a cultural issue, the fact that your kids like grow up and like, you know, start torturing animals or taking guns to school and, you know, mowing down elementary school kids, kindergarteners? How does that feel? Like as a person who is raising those people, I really just want to know like, where does that come from? Or like the crimes against children, like y'all raise these men and then they grow up and commit horrific crimes against children. I just want to know like, how does that feel to like be raising the next generation of, you know, mass shooters and pedophiles? How does that feel for y'all?