There's no parenting

HERE, LOOK. THESE ARE THE notes. EVELYN HAD A good start to the day. SHE WORKED WELL. when you went to the library with your teacher, SHE HAD SOME trouble with accepting the answer of NO and following NO and following directions. This week we have had quite a few. At least eight that she can count. instances of asking a question, "CAN I PLAY WITH?" And when the answer is NO, because it's not the right time or other reasons, then she goes and asks another room. You know what that's called? IT'S CALLED MANIPULATION. So if somebody tells you no, that means no, right? You have to wait. Okay? This occurred again in library and she chose trying to rip items, whining, bending a book, temper tantrums. YES, YOU WERE. DON'T LIE TO ME. DON'T LIE TO ME. YOU UNDERSTAND? OKAY? LYING IS NOT OKAY. YOU OWN UP TO OUR BEHAVIOUR, IF WE'RE WRONG, WE SAY, I'M SORRY] WAS WRONG, OKAY? SHE WAS ASKED TO BE NICE TO THE BOOK AND TO YOUR TEACHER AND THE AND STILL CONTINUED BOOK. THE BOOK WAS REMOVED AND CONTINUED TO POUT AND ACT OUT. HAD TO WAIT 10 MINUTES TO MAKE CHOICE FOR FREE TIME. AS A CONSEQUENCE, THIS AFTERNOON IN THE ZEN DEN. LISTEN TO MISS AND DID NOT WANT TO GIVE ON THE SWING. SO YOU GAVE YOUR TEACHER, THE IT'S OKAY TO BE SAD, YOU BECAUSE YOU, YOU ACTED OUT TODAY, OKAY? BUT YOU GAVE YOUR TEACHER. TEACHER THE TALK TO THE HAND SIGN TWICE TODAY, AND THEN MISS TABBY BROUGHT YOU BACK TO THE ROOM EARLY AS YOUR CONSEQUENCE. ROUGH DAY TODAY, HUH? IT IS NOT OKAY FOR YOU TEACHERS LIKE THAT. OR ANYBODY, OKAY? YOU ALREADY HAD YOUR CONSEQUENCE. I ALREADY TALKED TO YOUR TEACHER. SHE SAID THAT YOU ALREADY HAD YOUR CONSEQUENCES. I'M NOT GOING TO CONSEQUENCE YOU AT HOME, OKAY? YOU ALREADY HAD YOUR CONSEQUENCE. I ALREADY TALKED TO YOUR TEACHER. SHE SAID THAT YOU ALREADY HAD YOUR CONSEQUENCES. I'M NOT GOING TO CONSEQUENCE YOU AT HOME, EVEN THOUGH YOU HAD A ROUGH I STILL LOVE UNDERSTAND ME? YOU. MAKE MISTAKES, MAN. HOW ABOUT THAT? COME HERE. IT'S OKAY TO MAKE MISTAKES. WE'RE NOT GOING TO STAY IN THE FUNK FOR A LONG TIME. YOU ALREADY HAD YOUR CONSEQUENCE. TO HAVE A THE NIGHT, OKAY? WE GOT A LONG WEEKEND TOGETHER. I WANNA HAVE SOME FUN. DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SOME FUN? HIGH FIVE. PUT A SMILE ON THAT FACE, THERE. THERE YOU GO.