Don't marry the person that you can have fun with.

Don't marry the person that you can have fun with. Marry the person that you can suffer with. Anyone can love you when life is good. When the sun is shining and the money is flowing and the smiles, they come easy. But that part is simple. But love isn't proven on the best days. Love is revealed on the worst ones. When life hits hard and. and then the nightmare starts. You have no idea what's gonna happen, and everything feels uncertain. Romance isn't vacations and photos. Romance is who sits next to you in the E R. Waiting room at 3:00am when you're giving birth. Who holds your hand when the future feels terrifying. And they look at the broke, exhausted, messy version of you that you hide and you. You kept hidden for a long period of time because nobody liked them. And they still choose you. They still stay even though you guys fight, because they know that every single relationship is going to have discomfortability, and you're gonna have to make compromises. See, anyone can be your playmate in the sunshine. But the right person, they're willing to walk through hell to be with you. Because we both know that there's never going to be a perfect relationship between two people. And you guys are going to have to make compromises. You're going to have to go through things. You're going to have to hurt each other. It's inevitable. And it might be on purpose. And it might be on accident. But regardless, if you guys can get through it and forgive each other and learn from it and not do it again, that's what actually matters. You don't meet your soulmate. You build your soulmate over time.