Sex IS NOT LOVE ! DATING IS NOT LOVE ! TALKING TO SOMEONE 24/7 IS NOT LOVE

We've confused a lot of things with love. Sex is not love. Dating is not love. Talking to somebody 24/7, seven days a week is not love. Laying up with somebody every night is not love. Anybody can do that. Love doesn't really reveal itself until life gets hard. Love is somebody seeing you at your absolute worst and loving you. The same love is somebody making things happen for you when you can't. It's somebody holding you while you're crying your eyes out instead of telling you to get over it. It's somebody reminding you who you are when all you can see is what's wrong with you. Is somebody praying for you even when you're not around? Is somebody that can tell that something is wrong just because you got quiet? Is somebody staying faithful when you'll never know if they did or didn't? Is somebody cutting off anybody that threatens what y'all have? Because protecting the relationship matters more than keeping options. Is somebody who can make you laugh when life is beating you up? Is somebody who wakes up and chooses you again and again and again and again? That's love. Everything else is easy if God ever blesses you with that. Don't play with it. Because a lot of people spend their whole life chasing a feeling and never experience the real thing.