Gay community recreating straight dynamics?

The bottom cocoon. First there's a straight to gay cocoon. Yeah. And then you get out of that then you're a bottom cocoon. And then you go into the bottom to top cocoon. And then you fully get your wings. And then yeah. And by the way, I know for a fact that eventually after you've bottom to top cocooned, there's a top to verse cocoon. Uh-huh. And you go, "Actually, I'm free to be whatever I want. What does this even fucking mean? What does it mean? What do these labels even mean? The strict adherence to these roles? Yeah, why are we recreating being straight? Yeah, exactly. It's essentially what it is. What is it to be a top or a bottom? How about I'm a human being? I mean, it's basic- it's so funny 'cause it's like, it's basically one acts like a girl and one acts like a guy. I would be extremely careful. I know, but- but in the worst way. But what I'm saying is that's what's- that's what I don't understand about it. No, what you're actually saying is extremely advanced gay guy criticism of gay guys, and coming from you, it's going to hit some people the wrong way. But you're right. Uh- sure. My idea, but that's the thing. That's what I'm saying, inside- this is the goodness shining through. People are having a hard time, this coming from this mouth- they wanna shoot the messenger. But I don't under- like truly, that's what I wanna understand. It's like, wait, but every- every like thing you're describing just seems to one for one be recreating a heterosexual- A huge problem in the gay community is people recreating heterosexual dynamics and then mapping them onto- It's a huge criticism that I think a lot of, especially like trans and gender queer people make about gay people. Uh-huh. It's some- it's something they've tried to launch against me online- of course they don't know me. Of course. But yeah, it's just criticism. Well, that's why I'm here. They'll get mad at me. You're here to serve. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're here to serve as the smoke grenade. I'm the sin- I'm the sin eater for you. I'll take it all, dude. It's the meme with the fucking army guy and the sleeping child. I'm in the bassinet. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And you're taking a- like what- they've got like arrows and also like a bunch of knives, missiles. Yeah. Just do it to me and watch Uncle Stav. You know it'll really piss me off if you're mad at me, watching my special on Netflix. Don't watch Uncle Stav on Netflix. Don't do it. He'll love it. He's lying to you guys. It will only power him up. Whose side are you on? I'm lying. Caleb told me to say that stuff. I think everything gay guys do is right and beautiful. Stav, no. Stav. No, you're right. It is- it is really interesting. I think, um, top shortage. I don't know where the top shortage comes from. That's really fascinating to me. Lesbians are going through it as well. Really? Lesbians are going through it as well. They got a top shortage over there as well. Huh. I mean, we- I that was running through my mind where you're talking about, how am I gonna date a guy and we're hitting the buffet? I'm like, that is tough for other reasons you didn't mention. Yeah, exactly. We're both hitting the buffet. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess it's a lot of- I bet- I bet fat for fat relationships are a lot of sucking each other off. That's called side. Ooh, really? There's a name for that, do you know that? Wait, just sucking you off is a thing? No, just- no anal, all oral. There's a name for it now in gay guys. All oral all the time, baby, 24/7. There's no penetrative intercourse? All oral all the time. These are sides. That's crazy. That to me, that's like going to a restaurant and only ordering sides. Yeah. I don't want a meal just of macaroni and cheese. You want a meal. Give me a main dish of some hole to fuck. You've never had a meal of all sides and been thrilled? Okay, that's a good point. Once in a while. Yeah. But how many times am I going out for tapas? Not many. Not many, right? Not many. So every- that's crazy to me that somebody doesn't fuck or get fucked. There's a lot of gay- gay guys getting into side stuff because guess what, who has the time to not eat all day and then really-