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if you were to ask me why i don't want kids...

@itspaigedevriendt

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Why it worked

The creator taps into a common, often unspoken, sentiment about choosing not to have children. By framing it as a personal reflection rather than a direct argument, it resonates with viewers who share similar feelings or are considering the decision, leading to high engagement through comments and shares.

Summary

The creator explains their decision to be childfree, citing personal reasons and observations about the challenges of parenthood. They express contentment with their current life, focusing on self-care, their dog, and supporting family members.

Structure

1Introduction to the topic of not wanting children
2Explanation of personal capacity and financial concerns
3Acknowledgement of societal expectations and personal fulfillment
4Statement of contentment with chosen lifestyle and support for family

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if you were to ask me why i don't want kids... i'd say i can barely take care of myself and my dog after work, i don't know how parents do it but if you were to ask me on a deeper level... i'd say i have never felt the calling to be a mother. i see how exhausting, time consuming, and expensive it can be and cannot imagine having the money, time, and emotional capacity everyday to raise a child. not to mention childcare costs are insane and we cannot live on one income. i don't want to struggle mentally, physically, and financially. i know parents say it's worth it, and i believe it for those who truly want kids but that's not how i feel. i love my nephews and nieces (blood & chosen) and choose to spend the time, energy, and money i do have with them / supporting their moms instead.

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32 and have not wanted kids since i was at least 14 years old (that i can remember). i have never waivered in this. i dont think everyone needs to be a parent to be fulfilled or live a fulfilling life. #childfreebychoice #childfree #childfreetiktok