Girl, hold my hand while I tell you this,

Girl, hold my hand while I tell you this because this is coming from a place of love, but I'm about to be brutally honest. You need to live your life every single day as if you are never going to get married and you are never going to be supported. As if you are the only person that you can ever rely on. I know that that sounds terrifying because what do you mean, I'm never gonna fall in love? But what if you never fall in love? What if you never meet your next partner? What if that doesn't work out for whatever reason? What are you gonna do? You gonna put your dreams on hold? Will you never take that vacation? Will you never learn that skill? Will you never actually grow in the way that you wanna grow? Are you just gonna be complacent? Like, what if no one was coming to save you? You need to operate with that mindset, because no one is. You are your only priority life opens up for you. Take that trip with your best friends if you don't have the financial means to. Okay, well, work on yourself. What kind of person do you need to be to be the only one that you can rely on? The end of the day, there is one person in your whole entire life who will forever have your back. And they have been with you since the minute that you've Ever breathed air? That is yourself. And the only person that you ever need to focus on is you. And you should not be waiting on your partner to come save you. You need to save yourself.