Brutal honesty or honestly brutal ?

People that are brutally honest always seem to like the brutality more than the honesty. They will say something and make you feel like absolute shit and then be like, 'Oh, sorry, I'm just keeping it real.' But really, they're just being mean and hiding behind the guise of honesty. This one time I was shopping for a dress for an event with my friend group and there was this one girl that cried herself on being brutally honest. She would always be like, 'Oh, sorry, I just speak my mind. I tell it how it is.' So anyways, I'm trying on this dress and I asked my friends what they think. And little miss always speaks her mind says, 'I'm going to be so real, your boobs are not big enough to pull that off.' You look like a 12-year-old. And the thing is, they think they're being honest because they're speaking their mind, but they could have just as easily said, 'Hey, I don't think that dress is the most flattering on your body type.' That would have also been honest. For some reason, these people think that honesty and kindness are mutually exclusive. When I would actually argue that you need to have empathy when you're being honest. Otherwise, the people that you're giving your honesty to won't actually take your advice. The way you deliver your message is more important than the message itself. When you deliver honesty in a brutal fashion, people will remember the insult more than the actual advice. Brutal honesty is not honesty, it's just an excuse to be a mean person. Okay, bye guys. So in honor of these people, I think I'll give my own brutal honesty. Although they might try to position themselves as having high morals, really, they're just a bully that never grew up. And honestly, I pity them. No, but for real, it's wrap up the mean girl behavior. Okay, bye guys.