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Their other posts in the index, biggest breakout first.
If you're the kind of woman that other women come around and they say, girl, I knew I had to get dressed up because I knew you were going to look amazing and dressed to the nine. You are doing it right. You are doing amazing. You should be dressed up to the point where people feel like they need to level up to you. Stop dressing down to make other people feel better about themselves. You need to set the bar so high that they have to come higher and you need to never ever allow it to get lower than that. So, the next time someone shames you for dressing up or for looking amazing or for looking like your best and people tell you why you're so overdressed. You need to say because this is who I am and this is what I'm worth and this is what I bring. You don't like it. That's your problem. Force people to level up to you. Stop putting yourself down, making yourself uglier, dressing worse so that other people can digest you easier.