Wedding Regrets

It's officially been a month since I got married. Let's talk about some of my wedding day regrets. I would like to preface this by saying, literally nothing really went wrong. So these are very minuscule, but hopefully this will help some other brides in the future. Okay, here we go. First thing, and possibly the main one is that I didn't really get any good posed professional photos in my second dress. And for me, because it was like the ruffle dress that broke the internet, I wanted some like badass iconic photos in it. I just didn't have the energy by the end of the night. Once that dance floor opened up, I was like, let's go get my, let's go back to the dance floor. I was like super FOMO. I didn't want to miss anything. I didn't take my photographers with me to change, like I didn't have any of this planned out. And then once I got back to the dance floor, I wish I would have pulled them and said, like, let's take some posed photos in it. I'm pretty sure they did get some of me in the dress, like on the dance floor, but I do regret that for sure. Another thing, having to do with the late night food. We had these really yummy sliders and a ton of dessert out, and I didn't get any of them. I didn't get any of either of them. Thank God my wedding planner packed up a dessert little box to go, so I could eat the dessert over the next couple of days, but I didn't get a late night slider. Because I was already full from dinner. This one is kind of random, but the veil placement. I did my own hair and makeup on the wedding day and I wore a bun, just like a regular slick back bun, how I normally do it. I didn't really do anything fancy. But I also didn't plan or prep or trial my veil placement earlier. And the way that it sat, let me get you a photo. Okay, a lot of the photos from the back look like this, where the bun like splits the veils. So I think I either needed a lower bun or a higher veil. It's not that deep of an issue. But some of the photos from the back, like this, from the back, kind of bothered me. For that reason. This one has to do with before the wedding. I wish I would have gotten things done earlier. Honestly, I think we did a pretty good job of having a lot of things done, prepped early, but I think if you're a bride to be listening to this, do that shit now. Do it now. Do it now. We had certain like random little DIYs and things that we were still pulling together the week of the wedding, which I really did not want to do and it gave me more stress than necessary. I wish I could have been able to relax. Honestly, like two weeks leading up to the wedding, and we were still scrambling. More time together. This was specifically at our welcome party. I feel like it was just so exciting having everybody there. We really didn't focus on intentionally being together. And we did, but we got pulled apart a lot. And I know that people tell you like, really spend time together. You really got to focus on it because it's hard, especially when you have different friend groups and things and stuff. And then last but not least, writing earlier in our vow booklets earlier. I thought it would be like romantic and sweet to write them in them the morning of the wedding. I thought it would be like romantic and sweet to write them physically in them the morning of the wedding. We had our vows done earlier, but we were writing in them the morning of the wedding. It was like kind of sentimental and sweet, but at that point, I was ready to just like get up, have my panic attack, eat my breakfast and start my hair and makeup and things were running kind of late because I took so long to do this. So honestly, I think just like write in them ahead of time. Now that it's been a month, I've had time to decompress. I want to start doing a lot more videos like this where I break down things from the wedding, things that went well, things that didn't go well, vendors, all that kind of stuff. So drop any questions that you have in the comments and we will do lots more videos.