most important lessons from Shera Seven

most important lessons from Shera Seven (last one is the most important) 1. he has to like you 10x more 2. control your emotions 3. your appearance is everything 4. if you're thinking about a man too much, you're not busy enough 5. a man should never be your main source of happiness follow for a part 2 I've learned from Shera Seven. 1. He has to like you 10x more. As a woman, you should never like or love someone more than they like or love you. If you love them more, you're going to end up doing so many things for them and you're going to lose yourself in the process. A man who likes you so much is never going to make you worry about anything and is going to make you feel at peace 24/7. He has to like you more and no questions asked. Next is to control your emotions. This goes for settings outside of men as well. You shouldn't really be letting people see you emotionally. Next is that your appearance is everything. I know that sounds super shallow, but when you start leaving the house and things other than sweatpants, sweaters, no makeup on, your hair not done, it really will elevate your confidence. And number four, if you're thinking about a man too much, you're not busy enough. Once you start waiting around for something like a good morning text, you've already lost him. And I think that sentence is so beautiful and sums up a lot of what she's trying to say where you should not be letting a man consume your energy and your time. And number five, a man should never, ever be your main source of happiness. I'm definitely going to be doing a part 2.