#1 way to grow the fastest in your 20s

@shaileeirl

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The video provides actionable advice on a topic relevant to ambitious young people, framed as a quick, valuable lesson. The use of numbered points and clear explanations makes the content easily digestible and shareable.

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The creator explains that hosting is a valuable skill for rapid growth in your 20s. She outlines three key aspects: starting small to gain experience and attract funding, curating the event's vibe with props and lighting, and integrating activities that foster vulnerability and deeper conversations.

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1Introduction to hosting as a valuable skill
2Tip 1: Start small and gain experience
3Tip 2: Curate the room and its atmosphere
4Tip 3: Integrate activities for vulnerability and deeper conversations
5Conclusion and call to follow for more

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The video discusses general principles of hosting events and does not promote a specific product or service. The creator's substack link is provided but not explicitly promoted as the subject of the video.

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FOR ALL MY AMBITIOUS PPL IN THEIR 20s!! hosting is so good for: - building so much confidence - creating inspirational communities to learn from - opening doors to unexpected opportunities - becoming the connector ILL EXPLAIN HOW TO DO IT IN 60 SECONDS #hosting #buildingcommunity #ambitious #meetingnewpeople #makingfriends #buildingconfidence

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#1 way to grow the fastest in your 20s explaining how to host in 60 seconds 1. start small 1. start small if you wanna host a conference you have to start by hosting a book club if you wanna host a party you have to start by hosting a pregame this is important because not only do you get better at reading the room and hosting at lower stakes but you can use this as an opportunity to get funding for whatever big event that you wanna throw because you can show companies and show sponsors that with their money you have the capability of throwing something really good now the reason that funding is super important because you wanna curate the vibe of the event 2. curate the room props lighting theme they all cost a lot of money it helps not only the people in the room feel more special but it also builds trust and creates space for vulnerability is the biggest way to create an event that people actually remember so the first way to do this is curation but the second thing is 3. activities to create space for vulnerability in different activities that help people have deeper conversations for example at my past dinners conferences I brought in a lot of motivational inspirational speakers who share their stories and get vulnerable first so that people feel comfortable also sharing their own stories and getting vulnerable with each other these are the top three things that I've learned from hosting I definitely wanna go deeper into all of them so if this is something that you really liked make sure to follow for more

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I genuinely believe hosting is one of the most invaluable skills you can have as a 20-year-old trying to grow rapidly. So as someone who's hosted over 40 different events, I'm going to teach you in 60 seconds what it took me 4 years to learn. 1. Start small. You have to start small. For example, if you wanna host a conference, you have to start by hosting a book club. If you wanna host a party, you have to start by hosting a pregame. This is important because not only do you get better at reading the room and hosting at lower stakes, but you can use this as an opportunity to get funding for whatever big event that you wanna throw. Because you can show companies and show sponsors that with their money, you have the capability of throwing something really good. Now, the reason that funding is super important because you wanna curate the vibe of the event. Props, lighting, theme, they all cost a lot of money. It helps not only the people in the room feel more special, but it also builds trust and creates space for vulnerability. Vulnerability is the biggest way to create an event that people actually remember. So the first way to do this is curation, but the second thing is integrating in different activities that help people have deeper conversations. For example, at my past dinners, conferences, I brought in a lot of motivational inspirational speakers who share their stories and get vulnerable first, so that people feel comfortable also sharing their own stories and getting vulnerable with each other. These are the top three things that I've learned from hosting. I definitely wanna go deeper into all of them. So if this is something that you really liked, make sure to follow for more.