RE: CALL HER MOMMY Ladies, we need to stand tf up

@sarahlemoinee

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The video likely resonated due to its empowering message for ambitious women, addressing common dating frustrations and societal expectations with a direct and relatable tone. The creator's personal anecdotes and strong opinions likely sparked engagement and discussion.

Summary

The creator discusses the importance of women having high standards in relationships, particularly regarding their partners' ambition and work ethic. She argues against settling for men who lack drive or rely on others, emphasizing that women have options and should not accept less than they deserve.

Structure

1Introduction: Women need to stand up for themselves in relationships.
2Critique of men lacking ambition and the 'trust fund baby' archetype.
3The creator's personal experience and the societal double standard.
4The importance of women having standards and options.
5Concluding thought: Follow for more insights.

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RE: CALL HER MOMMY Ladies, we need to stand tf up I was actually dumbfounded by some of the things I've always taken into consideration making more than the man that I'm with, but but I have never considered being with a man who doesn't work or doesn't want to work or doesn't have ambition The trust fund baby, my biggest nightmare because you can be as rich as you want, but if you don't want to work. If you don't have ambition, boy, bye. Men are falling in a system that they set up and women What's the excuse? I just like to remind you that you are a girlfriend, you are not a mother, you are not parenting his child, you are not paying for his bills. Well, also doing like cooking, cleaning or teaching him how to do his laundry. And I can assure you being single is not that bad. Men that lack ambition, drive, passion, literally want to be with women like you who earn a lot of money, who care about their career, who are growing and they're going to drag you right down with them. I got to go to Paris for a work trip for one of my old jobs and I remember my boyfriend saying to me Where's my Thank you? Why? Because he told me to get into sales. That's it. Did all of the research myself. I did all of the interviews myself. I got the job myself and it's like you are still expecting me to give credit. But at the beginning, it's like, you should get into sales. You would be so good at it. But the second I saw success, I was getting an opportunity that he wanted. Where's my credit? So many studies and reports that men's quality of life increases when they get married, whereas a woman's decreases Men earn more money, whereas woman earn less. I just need to remind women we have option. You are allowed to have standards. You do not have to accept the bear minimum. You do not even need to be in a relationship. Especially with a man child. Oh my god, I don't even know. Maybe I'm going to make a second video on this because I have to go, but I have so many thoughts. So, you know what? Follow along.

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I have so much to say on this topic but LADIES!!!!!! BE WITH SOMEONE WHO MEETS YOU, MATCHES YOU, AND PUSHES YOU TO BE BETTER!!!! #callhermommy #successfulwomen #datingadviceforwomen #ambitiouswomen

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You can call me mommy because I make four times the average Canadian man my age and if you are also a high earning or ambitious woman, a man should make your life easier. I was actually dumbfounded by some of the things in this article. I've always taken into consideration making more than the man that I'm with, but I have never considered being with a man who doesn't work or doesn't want to work or doesn't have ambition. The trust fund baby, my biggest nightmare because you can be as rich as you want, but if you don't want to work. If you don't have ambition, boy, buy. Men are falling in a system that they set up and women are what's the excuse? I just like to remind you that you are a girlfriend. You are not a mother, you are not parenting his child, you are not paying for his bills. Well, also doing like cooking, cleaning or teaching him how to do his laundry. I can assure you being single is not that bad. Men that lack in marriage drive, passion, literally want to be with women like you who earn a lot of money, who care about their career, who are growing and they're going to drive you right down with them. I got to go to Paris for a work trip for one of my old jobs and I remember my boyfriend saying to me. Where's my Thank you. Why? Because he told me to get into sales. That's it. Did all of the research myself. I did all of the interviews myself. I got the job myself. And it's like, you are still expecting me to give credit. But at the beginning, it's like, you should get into sales. You would be so good at it. That's the second I saw success. I was getting an opportunity that he wanted. Where's my credit? So many studies and reports that men's quality of life increases when they get married, whereas a woman's decreases, men earn more money, whereas women earn less. I just need to remind women. We have options. You were allowed to have standards. You do not have to accept the bear minimum. You do not even need to be in a relationship. Especially with a man child. Oh my god, I don't even know. I mean, I'm going to make a second video on this because I have to go, but I have so many thoughts. So, you know what? Follow along.