The 80/20 rule with women

To have a healthy relationship as a man, you have to settle. And you've seen so much content about having high standards about finding a woman who's a 10 out of 10 with a negative 5 body count who fucks like a pornstar. But the secret to having your dream relationship is actually realizing every woman has flaws. You want the girl who's super feminine, who cooks for you, cleans for you, always praises you after you work, until you're paying for everything and emotionally managing all the conflicts she has in her life. You want the woman with low body count, right? Until you're sitting there having starfishes. You want the homebody until you're bored as fuck. Every woman has some cons. They've got some cons. And it's very easy to look at your girl on her worst day when she's not wearing makeup and walk past some IG thots and think how life would be so much better over there, right? Fucking shitty day at work, we're pulling up LinkedIn. I hate the hustle and bustle in New York City until you move to Tampa, having conversations with people above 100 IQ. The more time you spend with your girl, like really think about the woman that you have right now, you're gonna see some stuff that you didn't see in the first couple weeks. The face of the discomfort of showing her, right? You can't be the perfect shiny object of desire. You gotta own that you're both human beings. And a lot of guys will ram up against that three-month wall, and then break up, do it again, break up, do it again, because there's something wrong with her, or something wrong with them. There's something wrong with everyone. If you view your relationship as a spiritual practice, it to become conscious to become a closer person to other human beings, as these obstacles start to look like targets. Like, fuck yeah, another tough conversation. I'm gonna grow from this. I'm gonna text her, I'm pissed. How am I gonna apologize? Leadership? How did I miss an event that told her it was important to me? How am I gonna lead us through this apology, resolution, conflict? Fun? Going deeper than that initial three months. I deserve it, bro. I know it's scary for you, but you can walk through that uncharted territory like Lewis and Clark did. That guy, I have a string of three months to fucking three and a half months right now, but a great girl who's 80/20, not 80%. It's pretty fucking dope, right? So I'm trudging along. Case. If as a guy, you need areas in all the other areas of your life, you're gonna have less options as more and more and more options, bro. Every woman is gonna have some little thing that's not perfect. Woman's require, you know, coaching, her being the woman for you. Just her, you're gonna find that you love yourself for you, and she's gonna mirror that shit back. This is gonna be this beautiful, two souls, great together, laughing together, having a lot of good sex. Sauce.